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#Move on dari cinta yang menyakitkan#
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day replied at 17-1-2022 08:21 AM
Confuse jap. So that guy tu ex husband ke atau bf lepas dah cerai..
My 2nd boifren. Sori mukadimah aku tu meleret dengan my 1st boifren. My hasben was my 3rd boifren. Never loved him anyway. |
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Post time 17-1-2022 09:16 AM
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tumpanglalu74 replied at 17-1-2022 08:40 AM
My 2nd boifren. Sori mukadimah aku tu meleret dengan my 1st boifren. My hasben was my 3rd boifre ...
Why getting married if no love? |
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Edited by figurae at 17-1-2022 10:41 AM
Dear TT, me ols faham patah hati dan putus cinta ni sgt menyakitkan. Tak kiralah dgn sesiapapon. Tambah2 dalam kes TT hubungan cinta yang takde closure, takde penutup... Tapi siapalah me untuk judge orang lain sebab ujian setiap orang tak sama. Tapi daripada post TT tu I know you're a good person.
Tapi dalam kes TT me harap TT ambillah kesakitan ni sebagai hikmah Tuhan nak bagi. Me ols doakan TT dapat lalui phase ni dengan tenang dan tabah, jangan bersedih lama-lama dan semoga bertemu dengan kebahagiaan yang sebenar.
Sayangi diri sendiri, tak mau ulang lagi, dan baiki hubungan dengan Tuhan. itulah erti kebahagiaan yang sebenar.  |
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Post time 17-1-2022 02:59 PM
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figurae replied at 17-1-2022 10:28 AM
Dear TT, me ols faham patah hati dan putus cinta ni sgt menyakitkan. Tak kiralah dgn sesiapapon. Tam ...
Masya Allah. Im so touched dgn ur kind words 
Bergenang jap air mata..huhu..
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terima kasih tag saya
terima kasih juga kerana pujian nya
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Post time 18-1-2022 08:27 AM
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ipes2 replied at 18-1-2022 05:09 AM
terima kasih tag saya
terima kasih juga kerana pujian nya
Sy ada PM doc..
TQ @musangbodoh bg referral.. |
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oh OK but I didnt get any messages.but its OK, maybe u retracted and that is fine.
or maybe that you do not wish to talk to a doctor at this time, and this is fine too.
..only when u r ready.
i am a senior clinical fellow in endocrinology
one of my brach of work is Gender issues, but from medical / hormonal perspectives; i spent 10years in Gender Identity Disorder (mainly hormonally changing patients' sex eg FTM or MTF or etc)
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Sorry didnt have the opportunity to read up focusedly, but i get a gist of what u were saying.
As this is a more psychological ie its an issue with your sexual orientation (specifically your attraction to same sex, female in this case), it would define your issue as having Lesbianism (i think), if you were honest in your thread. I manage more with Transgender, Gender Identity Disorder and sex-change. There is little Sexual Orientation that I deal with, but i think my input would be valid for you. As a start, lets be clear that you do not have a psychiatric disorder and do not need any medications. Its downright common to feel what you feel and some young adults do / did experiment with this.
You are sure that you do not wish to be intimate with a man because of bad experienced with a male gender, eg as a child or a young adult or in your 20s? You may wish not to answer if you feel uncomfortable with it.
I'd like to stress on you that you are not a man or a lesser woman etc, its just your orientation when it comes to intimacy, is more towrads a woman and this is not uncommon.
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Post time 18-1-2022 07:05 PM
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ipes2 replied at 18-1-2022 05:01 PM
Sorry didnt have the opportunity to read up focusedly, but i get a gist of what u were saying.
As t ...
Kalau kata bad experience, memang tak ada. Saya ada abang n adik lelaki, ada kakak dan adik perempuan. Mak sy garang sikit, ayah sy a bit softer. As far as I know, tak pernah sexually abused smp trauma dgn lelaki. Dari kecik mmg attracted to girls tapi masa kecik tak tau nak define apa feelings ni.
Masa awal 20an, i never pursue atau act on my feelings towards girl. Cuma bila dah 27 gitu, tetiba rasa berani nak approach n start a relationship.
Sy cam confuse sbb kan orang ada kata macam mana pun perempuan in same sex relationship, akan ada masa diorang akan balik juga pada lelaki. As a muslim, of course i feel sinful to have this feeling and i just want a way out of these.
Sekarang, maybe saya tengah berubah, saya boleh control emosi and nafsu. Tapi saya takut sangat, someday, tiber saya jumpa perempuan yg saya suka, and i fall into the same cycle lagi. Penat nk go through another breakup later in life lagi. |
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Edited by mbhcsf at 27-1-2022 10:38 PM
manusia ade juzuk atau kmponen : ruh , nafsu, aqal, jasad
so, apa yg krisis sekarang bukan jasad tapi emosi psyche kan? jad nak isu komponen ruh tu ialah sama sifat juga - yakni ilmu.
lorongkan every yearning you have, dissapointment you have dengan bende simple je, mula mengisi jiwa yg 'kosong, atau benda yg you nak ubah tu 'and mulai kekososngan tu - dengan ilmu. itu manfaat minda, jiwa and aqal . you got tiga benda.
kenali diri, nikmat Allah and mula fahami diri and slowly bentuk jiwa dengan ilmu , meahami hakikat hak and hakikit realiti.
so, baguslah so far TT dah berubah so kuatkan je..just carry on with life , alihkan sentimen yg TT nak palingkan itu dengan benda yg produktif and buat you rasa happy. I am sure u can figure it out. I think kalau u ada niat nak beruah and miula zahirkan dengan perbuatan tu, kire you ade kesinan kudrat dari Allah and Allah sees that , ini ujian hidup kan , tak mudah surely so...it is okay pelan pelan berunah and letakkan goal , u nak redha aLLAh and ini tak mudah sangat tak mudah tapi boleh apa apa pun mula dengan lagkah pertama.
ilmu ni if according imam ghazali banyak ...so i think kalau u get yourselh busy dengan ilmu dan canag ilmu pun , memang rasa tak cukup mase ...so pada i , u can do alot of thonk to vent out all of this hubungan terlarang. Salurkan kepada sesuatu yg positif and produktif and memanfaatkan , i am sure kalau dah sekuat ini jiwa you untuk berubah you could find a way sikit sikit.
pasal si dia tu = baguslah dia u lepaskan sebab dia berhak juga untuk capai bahagia dia dengan lakukan benda yg sunnah, so be proud of her in that sense. Doa and doa je , and lakukan sedekah secara konsisten and doa je kat ALlah , agar Allah ambik balik semua feeling y tak produktif - all the yearnings , or perasaan tak sepatutnya...lead a lifestyle yg menjaminkan kesejehateraan aqal. harta , nyawa, agama keturunan you , all in all known as maqasid syariah.
isikan jiwa dengan komponen yg sama sifat dengan ruh tu , ilmu. itu sumber kekuatan jiwa , jiwa komponen ruh ...so u need simlar component to strengthen it, since you have been asking apa , bagaiman cara nak kuatkan jiwa, aqal , emosi, nafsu tu part of ruh ...so...itu jawapannya.
okay i wish you well.
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day replied at 17-1-2022 12:59 AM
Aku bukan tomboy..aku pakai tudung cuma maybe nampak aku tak feminin sangat..masa kecik mmg aku mc ...
Ko ada daddy issue ke dik?
Btw g la bt hormon treatment..pastu try refresh ur look..give it a try for a change...
Xcuba xtau kan..
Hati ni Allah yang pegang..
Hidayah Itu milik Allah
Rezeki xpernah tersalah alamat
Dan laknat Allah terhadap kaum put itu benar..bertaubatlah sementara masih ada kesempatan |
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day replied at 18-1-2022 10:27 AM
Sy ada PM doc..
TQ @musangbodoh bg referral..
Xpyh la dgr Nasihat Dr laki org yg Kaki selingkuh..nk kata xmatang dh tuwe kerepot nk kata xbijak doktor tp dok skandal Sana sini...pffftt |
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Normabaru replied at 25-2-2022 09:02 PM
Xpyh la dgr Nasihat Dr laki org yg Kaki selingkuh..nk kata xmatang dh tuwe kerepot nk kata xbijak ...
Ipes keww yg kaki selingkuh iteww?
Ko main taram aja ...
Kahkahkahkahkahkah |
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mbhcsf replied at 27-1-2022 10:23 PM
manusia ade juzuk atau kmponen : ruh , nafsu, aqal, jasad
so, apa yg krisis sekarang bukan jasad ...
Anak dah berapa ketul? |
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Mana ada thrill, mana nak test your mettle kalau takda sakit?
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tumpanglalu74 replied at 17-1-2022 08:40 AM
My 2nd boifren. Sori mukadimah aku tu meleret dengan my 1st boifren. My hasben was my 3rd boifre ...
Ko berhak bahagia.....cerai kalau tak bahagia...mungkin husbond ko yg ke 9 baru boleh datang bahagia yg ko dambakheun
Kahkahkahkahkahkahkah |
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Post time 17-1-2022 08:40 AM
Post time 18-1-2022 05:09 AM
.. errmm
good luck 
