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Aku yang terlalu pendiam dan terlalu serious !
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ohh kalau bab politik boleh la i masuk sedas dua .. dengar dulu apa dia nak cerita, and then a ...
animaniac Post at 31-7-2010 09:32 
hehehe...sblom ckp mintak maap dulu....TT berangan kot dak bila time org sembang2....?  |
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btw my fellow friends, sometime bila free or when i need to share my experience, i write it in my bl ...
animaniac Post at 31-7-2010 09:37
sama cam ku lak...ku pun lebih bnyk ku tulis kat blog....kalo dgn kwn2 tu sllnya ku ikut rentak jer...sbb kwn2 ku ni kadang2 suk cerita yg ku takleh masuk...terutamanya bab pengalaman derang dgn anak2...ku takder...pengalaman dgn anak2 sedara adalah...sll kalo ckp derang kata tak sama...jd lg baik diam n dengar..... |
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Reply 1# animaniac
selalunya org pendiam nie suka tersenyum...manis bila dipandang..kan kan.......
aku penah menjadi org y pendiam n serius..............................
ms aku sekolah rendah sampai sekolah menengah..............
paling kronik time sekolah rendah...
sbb ms aku masuk darjah 3-6..aku kena tukar kelas..aku tak reti nak kwn dgn dak2 kelas baru..
dh la kwn baik aku time darjah 1-3 p kwn dgn budak glemer...
habis aku ni jd pendiam jer la..hidup aku dgn buku..
bayangkan time rehat, aku beli kuih n air..aku dok kt corner sorg2..sambil mkn sambil baca buku...
time nie tahap kenyakinan aku -55.....hoho...
bila sekolah menengah, matang skit...aku dh pandai kwn dgn budak pmpn...
dh ada geng2 pmpn......tapi still tak reti kwn dgn dak laki.......dgn dak laki aku diam jer..malu n segan..
(padahal adik beradik aku semua lelaki)
bila masuk U.....aku boleh la ckp dgn laki..tp still tak pandai nak rapat2 dgn dorg.........
but aku dh pandai nak beramah dgn org....bergelak ketawa...buat lawak bodoh...
syukur aku dpt geng y pale gila2..haha.........
skrg..................................aku tak de la pendiam or telalu serius...
aku dh normal...aku tak de la terlalu pendiam or terlalu kecoh..kira sederhana la...........
tips nya klu nak beramah2 dgn org..ko kena mesrakan diri ko dulu..
1) jgn kedekut senyum
2) kalau tak reti bercerita..time org cerita ko fokus, pastu tanya soalan y releven..biar dorg rasa mcm ko ni gud listener..
3) pas dgr cerita dorg, ko leh bagi pendapat ko...
4) kalau tak reti buat lawak pun takpe, asalkan ko boleh gelak kalau org buat lawak.....lama2 ko akan boleh melawak...
5) bersikap terbuka...perasaan baik tuk disimpan..tapi jgn la sampai kita ni mcm patung..ko patut berlajar tuk percaya dgn org lain..certain part memang elok org tau emotion kita....tapi jgn sampai memalukan diri sendiri sudah..hohoho.. |
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TT you are an introvert. Means that you get energy from within yourself and being with people (especially mere acquaintainces) is draining.
After a day filled with people or activities, introverts tend to feel exhausted and empty. To recharge their batteries introverts need to be alone reading, daydreaming, painting, or gardening – any solo activity fills them up again.
It doesn't mean you have to live alone in a cave in the hills, you just need quiet time to come back to themselves. The energy source for introverts is from within.
An introvert's brain is literally wired differently than an extrovert's.
Introverts are more private, and less public. Introverts need time to think before responding to a situation, and develop their ideas by reflecting privately. Introverts' personality traits can be passionate, but not usually aggressive.
Btw, the above info was googled from some Psychology site.
You are completely normal. Just be yourself. Quiet, reflective, passionate person. Betul tak this are some of your character traits? Me & hubby are introverts. We just abhor being in crowds, especially crowds that we tak kenal. Being with family and familiar faces are fine. We love meeting new people but not in big crowded places, noisy, parties etc. Its nicer in calmer surroundings.
Embrace your personality traits and use it to your advantage. Its a strength not a weakness.  |
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Post Last Edit by animaniac at 31-7-2010 12:49
TT you are an introvert. Means that you get energy from within yourself and being with people (esp ...
AnitaSabrina Post at 31-7-2010 12:20 
thank you anita , i really love this info!!!  like , btw what u mentioned there is absolutely me! ok now i have to do more research on introvert |
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Reply animaniac
selalunya org pendiam nie suka tersenyum...manis bila dipandang..kan kan....... ...
Syik_Gojet Post at 31-7-2010 11:17
tq for sharing |
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hehehe...sblom ckp mintak maap dulu....TT berangan kot dak bila time org sembang2....?
puteri_malam Post at 31-7-2010 09:53
ehh tak lah berangan .. as i mentioned b4, i nie mmg a good listener |
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ehh tak lah berangan .. as i mentioned b4, i nie mmg a good listener
animaniac Post at 31-7-2010 12:51
opppssssssssss! sowieee.....bukan animaniac jer camtu...kadang ku sendiri pun tak reti nak join sembang kalo kluar ramai2 tu...ku lg bnyk mendengar jer....mungkin kita ni jenis yg tak reti potong ckp org kot...sbb sllnya kalo yg menyembang ni bersambung2 ckpnya org ni ckp sikit org lain lak tambah...ku sll rasa kalo ramai2 tu suara ku ni tak didengar walau ada idea nak menyampuk org bersembang...jd lg baik la dok diam2....kalo one to one tu baru la rancak..... |
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Reply 86# animaniac
sama2.............aku pun masih dlm proses belajar mcm ko.. |
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Reply 88# puteri_malam
sama la kita...geng... |
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Reply 84# AnitaSabrina
absolutely rite.......!!! |
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Reply puteri_malam
sama la kita...geng...
Syik_Gojet Post at 31-7-2010 12:56
jom kita gath..tgk camner riuhnya kita....hehehe |
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jom kita gath..tgk camner riuhnya kita....hehehe
puteri_malam Post at 31-7-2010 13:07
nak ikuttt :{:1_115:} |
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wow you are here?
well the thing is i am the opposite i do not even think that i am serious but people actually kata i am serious....isk i buat jokes pun org tak faham ya rabbi
anyway
au contraire as long as you not an Asperger it is okay lah animaniac heheheh
well why do not yoy get to know them better share your interesrts, their interest or i dunno find your own gang yang sama wavelength are you an introvert in any situation?
because i am bubbly - topic dependent if depa cakap hal hal yang ntah , to me a bit boring i just senyum and tak kisah pun...
cuam bila jumpa gang yang sama interest etc etc then i am bubbly or depending on the groups jugak.... |
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wow you are here?
well the thing is i am the opposite i do not even think that i am serious but p ...
mbhcsf Post at 31-7-2010 19:27
ha ha terkejut u give ur comment here lah mbhcsf ,i think orang macam u,dauswq, and others in Science and Tech punya discussion, we definitely can get along , same interest rite . can have never ending discussion  |
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ha ha terkejut u give ur comment here lah mbhcsf ,i think orang macam u,dauswq, and others in Sc ...
animaniac Post at 31-7-2010 20:58 
tapi kan normally u guys yang bergelumang dengan ( ni i hope not a negative connotation ) machines, and all sorts of "dy/dx" related world ni hahahaaha mmg introvert....kan?
tapi kan as your lady wife tu bubbly it sort of balance ler...
i lagilah....mmg tak leh masuk like i dunno nak sampuk once depa cakap hal gourmet food and what not...mmg i like what? hmm okay i do not care....kalau dinner with certain guests sebab our dept ada foreign visitors i kinda depends jugaklah sapa, kalau dia sembang i sembang if not selalunya that conversation will be dominated by the extroverted ones yang lebih bubbly lagi ler...i let it jer....of no interest...really. I makan jer....hahahahah |
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 ...aku ingat..aku sorg je dak pendiam dan pemalu....rupanya ada gak... |
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...aku ingat..aku sorg je dak pendiam dan pemalu....rupanya ada gak...
pressor Post at 31-7-2010 21:19
you?? as in pemalu..wow boleh tahan jugak post.... |
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Post time 31-7-2010 09:53 AM
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