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buang masa nyer tolong bf camneh...... kalau mek... mek dah angkat kaki sambil nyanyi lagu sheeda kero!!! |
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aku paam pwasaan ko TT coz aku pn in long time relationship....almoz 9 yrs...nk tinggal syg...twozkn seksa...jz, bf aku tk pnah nk pinjam2 duit ney .. tpkn, bg aku...org laki nye tk bole d bagi muka@ everything sgt...t lemak deyh.... bg aku..nk tlg pn ada had nyea,,,ney cm nk amek ksempatan kt ko jea... tk pn gney lh...ko bg jea ayat yg aku bg kt membe aku yg brutang ng aku 'kalo daa kata pinjam, slagi aku tk halalkn..mang ttp utang..tp kalo wat2 lupa, tanak bayaq,,aku nk wat cane...n kalo d takdirkn hang mati esok...kompom2 kuboq sempit..ish2,,tk dpa aku bygkn cane bdn+tulang ang remuk weh,..huhuh...tu tk tmasok balasan dosa2 len...astagfirullah...mintak simpang lh'..n lpz sbulan...dia twoz bayaq utang dye tuh...huhuhuhu |
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iolsss nk speku...
bisnes boipren TT hade pinjam ngan along... |
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kalu org len ada mslh ngan pkwe, TT lahar jek..
TT kalu mslh sendiri, TT x kuat utk putus ngan dia.. tataw nape.. TT mghadapi mslh rendah diri y teruk.. TT x kuat nk idop sendiri.. x mmpu nk wat ke ...
nemo0309 Post at 21-2-2010 22:47  ...u noe...there are men yang born to be users...dan selalunya...pompan2 yang ada masalah rendah diri or low self esteem are their willing partners...kenapa aku cakap willing??...cos these low self esteem women ngan rela hati membiarkan diri mereka dipergunakan oleh lelaki2 sedemikian...and TT...i think your bf is one of these born users men and u are one of these low self esteem women yang willing to be used...
...u have been with him for 8 years...and what have u got in return from this relationship of yours??...u got nothing!!...takde jaminan yang dia akan kawin ngan ko...takde tanda2 yang dia akan dapat memberikan ko kemewahan dan kesenangan selepas korang kawin...dan yang paling best...takde tanda pon yang menunjukkan yang dia bley support diri dia sendiri without your help!!...
...so...what more do u need to tell yourself to get out from this relationship??...how much longer are u willing to withstand this bad and definitely unhealthy relationship??...
...come on sis...dont u realise that u are being played for a sucker??...please dont take another day of this...do u noe why ke kept doing this to u??...the reason is simple...cos u let him...u kind of teach him that it is ok for him to do what he is doing to u rite now...
...i understand that u have a problem with your low self esteem...but u have to convince yourself that self esteem doesnt come from your bf...u dont need your bf to boost your self esteem...self esteem juga doesnt even come from your good looks/looking good...it comes from feeling good about yourself...u have to accept who u are...u have to recognise and acknowledge your limitations and strengths...u have to value and appreciate diri ko lebih...kalau ko bley berbuat demikian...insyaallah u will never feel low about yourself anymore...
...so...nasihat aku...get yourself out from this relationship...clearly...he is not going to change (dah 8 tahun bertahan) he is just using u for his financial gain saja...u have to practice self affirmations more so that u will have better self esteem...u have to constantly tell yourself yang ko nie cantik...bijak...dan u definitely deserve to be loved by a good man...find yourself a new bf sis...and this time u make sure yang he has a steady and stable job...able to take care of himself financially and doesnt treat u like the atm machine... |
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tabaik uolsss soh hadek finding nemo carik boipren baru...
nomo tepon plissss..... |
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TT...
sepattnya TT xpyh pun bgtau dia yg TT ada duit simpanan..
itu hak peribadi TT,diam sorang2 sudah..bknnya korang suami istri..
xpyh nk bg pinjam lagi duit pasni,TT ni dah jadi mcm 'bank bergerak' dia dah..
cakap je yg TT pun nk pki duit..duit yg sblm ni pun dia xbyr lg kan,sindir2 ar ckit... |
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Nak pinjam duit 
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nak pinjam 500 hingiit ?
dia bisnes nasi lemak ka ?
sila tinggalkan pakwe ko yg sengkek itu..
pebuk pliss  |
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kedai printing dia kat mane?
nak print resume jap  |
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duit x kan selalunya cukup.. lagi byk duit masuk lagi byk la duit keluar... Memang la TT dah lama couple ngan bf TT.. tp cuba TT pikir, x kan selamanya TT nak hidup dlm keadaan macam tu...there is one fundamental rule that everyone should observe.. never to tell anyone that you have savings and never to show anyone your account books.... |
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lama betul ko bertahan..pakwe ko buat bisnes apa? Kalau ko rasa berbaloitunggu dia dan percaya dia akan berjaya suatu hari nanti..ko kasi lapinjam..Kalau ko rasa dia sudah sememangnya ambil kesempatan atas ko,ko angkat je la kaki. Mungkin kat luar sana ada orang baik untukperempuan yang baik hati cam ko..contohnya Tajul.
ketupat79 Post at 21-2-2010 19:36 
pendapat aku sama mcm ketupat. :pompom:
Dalam hubungan ni kena give & take...
Tak boleh ko sorang ja give n dia ja yg take..
Bf ko ni pun satu.. kot iya pun bayar lah hutang ko tu skett2.. RM50 sebulanpun jadik laa..
at least nampak gak komitmen dia tu.. huhu.. |
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lama betul ko bertahan..pakwe ko buat bisnes apa? Kalau ko rasa berbaloi tunggu dia dan percaya dia akan berjaya suatu hari nanti..ko kasi la pinjam..Kalau ko rasa dia sudah sememangnya ambil kesempat ...
ketupat79 Post at 21-2-2010 20:36 
baru pasan ade nama tajul |
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51# missdiyana
dian..ade citer sensasi lg mlm td... |
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51# missdiyana
dian..ade citer sensasi lg mlm td...
KIM.mafia Post at 22-2-2010 09:05 
yaka kak? jeng3...jap nak on YM.. haha |
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yaka kak? jeng3...jap nak on YM.. haha
missdiyana Post at 22-2-2010 10:08 
tapi xleh lama..japgi nak masuk meeting huhu |
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tuan umah becinta sejak umur berapa?
harap memang pasti he is the right man,bukan nak mempergunakan kamu
memang la pasangan kita ni tempat kita nak mintak tolong
tapi kalo mintak pinjam duit dalam amount yang banyak.cam susah skit je
kitorang kalo kengkawan,pinjam duti dengan kengkawna je
takde nak mintak kat gf,walo sebesar mane pun amount tu
hai  |
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aku rs 8 thn yg sia2 je...bisnes hape selama 8 thn tp xde untung2??..memanjang rugi..meminjam tu 1 hal..liat byr tu 1 hal...boypren...boypren jugak..tp utang kasik setel laa...bukan nak berkira...tp kalo dah kiter je yg asek bg pinjam...dan dier lak asek meminjam..lelama sakit ati laaa kan??..
TT takot nak idop sendiri??...esok2 kalo mati kekdahnyer berdua ke???....hmm kalo takot kehilangan kasiklaa pinjam dlm seribu dua...huhuhu...poket ko kempis...poket dier lak yg berisi... |
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nie pendapat wid ye TT....
elok laaa TT tinggalkan aje pakwe TT tue.....masa depan takde.....kalau kawin pun TT gak yg tanggung dier...cam biawak idup......bukan apa....dah lama TT kawan ngan dier tapi tak penah usaha tuk cari duit dan simpan......tue maknanya dia tak pikir masa depan.....sampai bila TT nak setia pada org yg camtu......TT pun rasa wid bukan takde rupa....mesti cantik dan cun kan.....bukan takde yg nak kat TT.....wid cakap berdasarkan pengalaman..... |
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wid rasa laki nie pengikis.......so baik laa TT pikir habis2.....yg penting mintak petunjuk dari DIA...... |
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