To start a family?

Agul

Originally posted by sisqeen at 4-3-2008 09:32 PM
some peoples want to get married and start his/her own family because the sake of other people done that and keep asking...when u going to settle down???

Why we have to let others/situation to ...

Sometime well meaning friends and爎elatives爈ike爐o爌lay燾upid.
Sometime, we want to seek approval from other people. We want to satisfy their whim, and fancies...
We feel that we have to satisfy them...

In the end, it's your life anyway.  

So you have your family members asking you to get married with this person...燱hat爓ould爕ou燿o? Will you do it?

I will marry on my own term, in my own time.

The crazy thing is that people will think that there must be something wrong with you, or you're gay or something if you're not married, eventhough you can.

Agul

Originally posted by hamizao at 4-3-2008 10:57 PM
Heheheh.....interesting that gam-phobia and anu-phobia stuff!

My x dulu BF for years and years. In the end we parted ways. Then Mr x came just knew him for a few months dah confirm. The ONLY t ...

you're referring to? inability to conceive? like infertility?

Well, if it's a physical thing I guess the couple could try going to the doc first, and if there's爊o爌ossible爏olution,爐hey燾an燼dopt.

SONofODIN

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 4-3-2008 06:40 PM


me WILL too

Are you married now?

wei_loon5063

not yet...

Agul

You shouldn't keep your fiancee for long...

mbhcsf

well, i see that a pot calling a kettle black..dah ni...

nazadiyah

i'm perfect when i have a family........when i dunno..

redsinner

kahwin? by malaysian standard i am already expired but i dont care.
i am looking for more in my life and my dad (wali tu...mestila) is the best person in providing me my full freedom to whatever i wanna do in life.
he even protect me from my aunties who sibuk2 tanya bile i nak kawin.
perhaps i havent really found HIM yet. still waiting...  

Agul

who'se pot? whose kettle?

if there's a great acre of open land, and a nice house to live in, some conection with the outside world, ready supplies of food and stuff, lots of privacy, that's nice enough.

mbhcsf

then Agul, i would see something o nice missing in the picture, i saw a gentleman playing a piano alone...
without a boy sitting on his lap facing the outside a spacious garden......

ni actually my imagination  bila u know tengok buku malaysia's architecture kat The Times book store ...klcc...cantk satu rumah tu and i would be imagining that description you mentioned in your postings...

that would be an empty house..lah Agul, it's not nice enuff for me  lah...

seribulan

bagaimana anda melayarkan bahtera perkahwinan yang penting...jika tidak kes kecurangan, kewajipan yang tidak sempurna dan pembentukan anak-anak tidak seimbang yang berpunca dari kesilapan @ kekurangan didikan ibubapa akan mencipta kitaran yang negatif kelak...

pinkerx

xkisah kawin lewat tp wisau my biological clock je..huhu..

seribulan

Oprah Primetime:

List 5 words to describe marriage...


konklusinya:

for marriage to succeed you must improve yourself, rather than trying to find faults, esp on your spouse...

LostSoul

start a family when you found someone who can share life - ups and downs with you. start a family when you feel that your heart is empty, as empty as your home. start a family when you feel responsible enough to take care of your little ones, giving them the best of you.

jambuberhias

It’s ok to start a family, when u know u can pull ur responsibility as a parent. Budak2 skunk, kahwin je, tapi parent skill takda. Pastu buat anak sampai7/8 anak