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green~tea replied at 1-9-2021 10:49 PM
Hobbies apa you buat?
I surround myself dgn rakan2 via online.. telegram chat... zoom workou ...
Dulu i suka travel..but now coz of corona dah tak boleh. Sekrg i byk hiking. I dah lamaa lost interest dgn fashion, bags etc. Nak borak dgn my friends pun dah susah bcoz i dah tak minat dgn benda yg diaorg suka. I’ve been facing this phase for almost 3 years (since early 30s).
I guess when you’re in midlife crisis you tend to question the purpose of your life. So i was thinking another way to deal with it is if you help others e.g. voluntary/charity work.. |
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i skrg fokus nak besarkan dan mendidik anak2 ... ni ada baby lagi... tapi banyak kaka2 dan abang2 dia yang tolong jaga juga... i hajat lepas pencen nak beli studio kat KL , dan nak round the world dengan husb. Kami suka jalan2 pegang tangan, lepak2 minum kopi... makan sepinggan, cuba pelbagai makanan... kadang2 rasa tak larat sebenarnya dengan umur 40 lebih ni ada baby lagi... tapi i berazam nak cukupkan dia fully bf 2 tahun Walaupun i sakit belakang sakit badan semua... kadang2 malam2 bila baby tak mau tido, i rasa juga serabut... mulalah nak datang rasa kemurungan juga... adakah ini mid life crisis? |
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kuihbakar replied at 2-9-2021 08:26 AM
i skrg fokus nak besarkan dan mendidik anak2 ... ni ada baby lagi... tapi banyak kaka2 dan abang2 di ...
kabennn... miss u!
Anyway topik yg best... i think i pun lalui fasa ni.. kadang i x sure eh kenapa tetiba rasa bosan sembang topik remeh... eh kenapa cepat marah bila member slow decide apa nak makan... also i hate gossips so i akan jauhkan diri dari depa ni... i think at age now i just need more positive vibes ... hmmm and mcm2 lagi lah.. but as older we get more wiser we are... so still ok ok jeee la midlife crisis ni temporary je |
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adila39 replied at 2-9-2021 08:40 AM
kabennn... miss u!
Anyway topik yg best... i think i pun lalui fasa ni.. kadang i x sure eh ken ...
miss u so much Dilla... ya betul, kita memang selalu ada krisis begini. tapi mungkin seiring dengan usia kita kan... Dila sihat?
semalam KB memborong folding bike untuk semua anak2. hajatnya setiap Sabtu nak cycling satu family dan piknik tepi sawah.... ni untuk bagi anak2 rasa ada makna dalam kehidupan |
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Xtau la nk ckp sdg mengadapi midlife crisis ke ape..tp skng mmg nk stay away from people yg -ve and mcm2 hal..xnk jumpe org xnk amik tau hal org nk ddk diam2. |
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Lebih suka wat hal sendiri je,fb pon da kurang.
Tiba2 mcm byk hal yg dolu2 aku suka tapi skrg jadi bosan.
Lebih byk keutamaan pa family,habis masa dgn ank2 n asben.
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Acik punya midlife crisis pulak sket2 nak nangis sket2 nak nangis apoooooooo |
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Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 11:43 AM
Gitu ulasan bergam ...
I dah hembus awal2 dah kehkehkehkehkeh... |
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kuihbakar replied at 2-9-2021 10:02 AM
miss u so much Dilla... ya betul, kita memang selalu ada krisis begini. tapi mungkin seiring denga ...
Chuolzzz.. folding bike??? Nice sangat.. i pun nak mende ni.... suka cycling sambil gendong anak kat seat belakang... tp husband i ckp takde return of investment langsung stakat kayuh beskal seminggu skali, hang sewa je laaaa... eeii.. geram betul pokcik tuh.. dia modify keta takpe plak.. kessah iols nak mohon izin dia beli beskal khuens... |
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kuihbakar replied at 2-9-2021 08:26 AM
i skrg fokus nak besarkan dan mendidik anak2 ... ni ada baby lagi... tapi banyak kaka2 dan abang2 di ...
My dream utk hidup santai2 camtu... blum kesampaian... pernah tanya laki nak beli studio tak kat kl city center.. heols ckp ala, sewa je la bila perlu.. booking.com kan byk, bleh pilih yg ada private pool lagi... malas nak commit payment
and mengemas sendiri... Huhuhu.... |
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adila39 replied at 2-9-2021 08:40 AM
kabennn... miss u!
Anyway topik yg best... i think i pun lalui fasa ni.. kadang i x sure eh ken ...
Not worth it laa spending energy emotion and time for gossips ni dilla, seriously tiada faedah.... mcm lah org yang kita gosipkan tu amek endah pasal kewujudan kita pun... so better la discuss something else yang boleh ada impact pada diri... even discuss nak beli pencuci muka apa pun lebih bermanfaat dari discuss pasal orang |
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Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 11:47 AM
Acik punya midlife crisis pulak sket2 nak nangis sket2 nak nangis apoooooooo
Banyak tengok drama korea plit twist bersimpul2 ke acikgomen |
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Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 11:43 AM
Gitu ulasan bergam ...
Kenapalah harus ade yg cemburu. Ekekekekek. |
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Acikgomen replied at 2-9-2021 11:47 AM
Acik punya midlife crisis pulak sket2 nak nangis sket2 nak nangis apoooooooo
Pastu stress dgn mak menteri. Masih stress ke sayang. Meh la bercerekarama dgn i |
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kuihbakar replied at 2-9-2021 08:26 AM
i skrg fokus nak besarkan dan mendidik anak2 ... ni ada baby lagi... tapi banyak kaka2 dan abang2 di ...
Oh my u got newborn? Tahniah. Lots of love nenek nora. Ekekeke |
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Applicable utk suami juga kan.
For myself, tak perasan kalau ada perbezaan atau tidak. So far, dpt manage kesihatan mental dan emosi sebaik mungkin.
Kalau husband, 2@3tahun ni dia lebih sensitif dgn sikap isteri. Minta lebih perhatian, mudah merajuj dan sexual drive meningkat sikit. Hehe.. |
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green~tea replied at 2-9-2021 01:08 PM
I dah hembus awal2 dah kehkehkehkehkeh...
I punye midlife krisis dh lps kut eh.
Now iols berquite2 dgn laki iols jelah.
Tanam pokok2. Eh tp iols suke berkebun dr muda lg.
Seronok rupenye keep it to urself ni. Duduk diam2. Pandang muka dia, dia pandang muka iols. Ah gittew.
Rasenye abis covid hansuang ni. Iols nk gi jakarta or maybe somewhere quite mcm belitung or maybe tmt sejuk kt Vietnam, lupe plak nama tmt tu. Gitu jelah impian travel iols. Tmt murah2 je |
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green~tea replied at 2-9-2021 01:17 PM
Banyak tengok drama korea plit twist bersimpul2 ke acikgomen
Dia perasan dia Korea |
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MrsVeneer replied at 2-9-2021 02:33 PM
Pastu stress dgn mak menteri. Masih stress ke sayang. Meh la bercerekarama dgn i
Tepaksa husnudzon dgn syaitonnnn yg sama dari masuk syaiton baru |
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