my friend's wife ada affair ngan org lain..

afja

Originally posted by darlingangel at 8-5-2008 04:32 PM
itu la kita tanya.. zaman ni ada gak ye yang guna... term tu dah tak relevant lagi.. takyah la amik port ja oi....

ehh... masih relevan lg lah nk guna....
best jek bunyiknya tuh kan...

afja

Originally posted by blackmore at 8-5-2008 04:37 PM
...pompan yang dah bersuami doesnt get into a relationship with other man for no rhyme or reason...kalau adalah pompan yang menjalinkan affair ngan other men walhal the husband has treated her ri ...

adakah apa yg nk dickp.... lelaki itukah yg berslh atau menjadi punca?

satu soklan cepu emas yeayy...

Hana

Originally posted by afja at 8-5-2008 04:29 PM


KENAPA ANDALUSIA MEROYAN... mestikah kita berSABAR dgn karenah mrk?

Kita tu..tgk la..
Kalau KITA tu perempuan..takper..perempuan kena SABARRRR.jadi kita leh main2 merry go round lagi..
kalau KITA tu lelaki.. haa..ini lariiiiii....

kikilalat

SABARRRRRRRRRR nih work both ways gak afja... tak one sided jer...

contoh:

aku jenis terkangkang depan tv, laki aku masuk tido dulu ... laki aku kena SABARRRRRRRRRRRRR...

aku jenis yg hot tempered, pot-pet-pot-pet.... laki aku kena SABARRRRRRRRRRRRR...




aku plak kena SABARRRRRR dgn laki aku yg jenis slow paced nak buat keja.... aku jenis yg fast paced...

aku kena SABARRRRRR biler laki aku senyap jer, takmo menjawab time2 aku pot-pet-pot-pet...



marriage nih mcm partnership yg complement each other... mcm aper kuda kata... tapi takder ler sentiasa SABARRRRR jer kan... gaduh2/ masam muka/ sindir2 tuh kira daily routine gak ler...

kikilalat

optical illusion aku bacer aper ko kata psl disillusion nih blackie...

Lipton

alamak kiki...kite terbalik kot lak..pangai hang adalah pangai laki aku..pangai laki hang adalah pangai aku..hu hu..

whiteDhahlia

Originally posted by afja at 8-5-2008 04:21 PM


terlalu ideal la vision abg kuder nih....
kena msk kelas ekonomi dulu....

tp dlm rumahtangga x aplikasi sgt lah....

laki marah.... bini kena SABARRRRRR.....
laki main pom ...

actually apa yg kudajantan cakap tu memang betul...
I've been married for 14 yrs n itu yg I laki bini amal kan...
communication,trust, respect each other, considerate n not demanding
if you dun hv these in a marriage you x kan happy
but of course marriage is not a bed of roses
爇ena terima diri masing2 seadanya la
I ada kekurangan diri n dia pun ada
mlm2 bila ber2 we all selalu luahkan apa
yg tak puas hati antara 1 sama lain
tapi selalu nya cakap dlm nada bergurau
bukan dlm nada serius
I ni jenis outspoken sket, apa tak kena
I takkan simpan lelama...mesti nak ajak bincang
skrg lebih爎asa bersyukur lepas baca banyak
kisah sedih kenkawan kat sini
dan sikap waspada pun makin teballll....

blackmore

Originally posted by afja at 8-5-2008 16:42


adakah apa yg nk dickp.... lelaki itukah yg berslh atau menjadi punca?

satu soklan cepu emas yeayy...

...theres no need to blame others for the mistakes yang kita dah buat...lagik pon...kalau nak carik kesilapan di atas sesuatu perkara tu...kita rujuk atau cariklah silap from within our ownself...kata orang...muhasabah diri kita dulu sebelum kita point fingers to others...


...simply put...i would just say that i believe nie semua actually terpulang pada pendirian individu tersebut...their personalities...and their perceptions on what marriage and relationship is all about...to me...it is all about respecting your other half...your love ones...very often u can hear and read that pple keep on uttering words of love...love poems...but...in actual fact...they are not being faithful to their love ones...they cheat...they lie...they sleep with other pple...having mistresses here and there...and some even got married without their wives knowledge...


...so....tak perlu kita pening2kan kepala kita mencarik sapa yang patut to shoulder the blame...cos takkan ada penyudahnya....heh...takkan game until kita sama2 agree and acknowledge that each and everyone of us ada silap masing2...masing2 hilang pegangan dan arah tujuan hingga terpesong jauh...


...like ive said before.....pple just dont get into an affair for no rhyme or reason....mesti ada sebab2 yang menjerumuskan mereka ke dalam situasi ini...the feeling of boredom...depressed and anger...lethal combination nie...which exposes u to find the thing that can make u feel good about yourselves from someone and somewhere else...


...when u feel that no one cares about u...and when u feel that your other hap doesnt seems to care and pay attention to u any longer...u tend to feel that u are not being love by them...
...internet chatrooms and forums and even at work...these are the places where unexpected liason can happen...no...u never want it to happen...neither u thought and expect that u got the audacity to do all these...not in a million years...but...hey...pple say shiit happen...and for all u know...u are being sucked into this hell hole...nak kluar from this hell hole???...for what??...when it makes u feel so damn good...so damn appreciated by some other person...


...it is only when reality sets in that u realise u are in a mess...deep shiit i tell u...and if u manage to get out from it...bertaubat...then good for u...but u are still left with a big question...to tell or not to tell??...if u were to tell...what would be the consequences??...are u prepared to face that consequences???...kalau u choose not to tell...then u have to live with that guilt feeling of yours for life...which i promise u will torment your sanity on and off...kalau dah terkantoi tu...then pandai2 lah menghadapi the consequences...



...so...for those yang dah sedar tapi masih berada di dalamnya...moga2 mereka akan mendapat rahmat dan kekuatan untuk kluar daripada lembah yang menghinakan diri mereka tu......whatever it is...no matter what they have done...dont we ever think lesser of them...cos...we are not tested by Him like what He has given to them...and we have no idea what it is like to be in that situation...


...however...after all that ive said...it is basically your iman dan akal yang akan menentukan whether ko OK atau pon ko KO...heh....

[ Last edited by  blackmore at 8-5-2008 05:01 PM ]

afja

Originally posted by kikilalat at 8-5-2008 04:45 PM
SABARRRRRRRRRR nih work both ways gak afja... tak one sided jer...

contoh:

aku jenis terkangkang depan tv, laki aku masuk tido dulu ... laki aku kena SABARRRRRRRRRRRRR...

aku jenis yg  ...

ala... ni kes tipu lah...
kes terpencil gitu....


kes yg telah dibuat statistik.... pompuan kena SABARRRRRRRRRRR dlm segala hal....
kena BERKORBANNNNNNNNNN lah...
lelaki x... lelaki dimaafkan...
suci bersih...mcm bayi baru lahir...


aduhaiiiiiiiiii..... sakit perut aku gelak satu ptg nih...

afja

Originally posted by whiteDhahlia at 8-5-2008 04:49 PM



actually apa yg kudajantan cakap tu memang betul...
I've been married for 14 yrs n itu yg I laki bini amal kan...
communication,trust, respect each other, considerate n not demanding
if  ...

ala... nih kes terpencil lah....
kes fairytale...
kes sinderella...

mmg la boleh buat....
sbb both side WARAS dan RASIONAL....

tp kalau 1 pihak je WARAS... 1 pihak lg x WARAS....
x boleh... kena SABARRRRRRRRR.... khususnya pompuan...

afja

haa lantak... andalusia meroyan terlebeyy nih...

nk balik dh....
nak wat yoga.....
supaya pernafasan lancar....
dan SABARR ditingkatkan...

kikilalat

heheh... kira aku jenis yg brutel sket ker?... masa tecik, aku tomboy...

whiteDhahlia

Originally posted by kikilalat at 8-5-2008 04:45 PM
SABARRRRRRRRRR nih work both ways gak afja... tak one sided jer...

contoh:

aku jenis terkangkang depan tv, laki aku masuk tido dulu ... laki aku kena SABARRRRRRRRRRRRR...

aku jenis yg牋...

ada byk jugak persamaan kita eh..
I jenis tempremental whereas dia cool manjang
kita pot pet dia wat diam je
tapi time temper dia dtg cuak gak kita....
lagi satu tunggu dia buat keputusan lambat
so selalu I yg buat keputusan, settle the prob
thats why selalu cakap kat anak2
mummy is the pm n daddy is the king
the pm runs the operations but with the kings approval...

kikilalat

Originally posted by whiteDhahlia at 8-5-2008 04:49 PM

skrg lebih rasa bersyukur lepas baca banyak
kisah sedih kenkawan kat sini
dan sikap waspada pun makin teballll....

  ...

betul... plus, perasaan nak improve kekurangan pada diri pun ader gak...

afja

Originally posted by blackmore at 8-5-2008 04:50 PM
...theres no need to blame others for the mistakes yang kita dah buat...lagik pon...kalau nak carik kesilapan di atas sesuatu perkara tu...kita rujuk atau cariklah silap from within our ownself.. ...

ni nk kena jwb dgn WARAS....

yes i do agreed with u....

mcm yg aku dh ckp lah....kat page yg lps2...

kenapa hal kecik mcm tu.... x bincang terus....
talk from heart to heart...
x selesaikan terlebih dahulu n what so ever.... dr mencari org ke3?

apa perlunya org ke3 ni.......dr selesaikan konflik yg timbul?


senario mcm tu..... aku dh msk lah...
dh tau jln ceritanya....
mls aku nk wat drama dh....

kikilalat

haha... betul lah tuh... kalo laki aku keraskan sket jer tone suara dia, cuak giler aku... baru tau dah over the limit nyer pot-pet...

aku mmg sakit jiwerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr gak kengkadang biler laki aku cool/ slow paced sgt... kalo camnih baik aku jer settlekan... lagik cepat siap...

kikilalat

Originally posted by afja at 8-5-2008 04:54 PM


ala... nih kes terpencil lah....
kes fairytale...
kes sinderella...

mmg la boleh buat....
sbb both side WARAS dan RASIONAL....

tp kalau 1 pihak je WARAS... 1 pihak lg x WARAS.. ...

maner ader tipu... cuma segan nak buka aib sendirik jer sebelum nih...

whitedahlia kata dia pun lebey kurang haku gak... depends atas perangai memasing konsep SABARRRRR  nih...

kikilalat

aku silap quote posting afja plak...

patut nyer quote yg nih...

ala... ni kes tipu lah...
kes terpencil gitu....

whiteDhahlia

Originally posted by afja at 8-5-2008 04:54 PM


ala... nih kes terpencil lah....
kes fairytale...
kes sinderella...

mmg la boleh buat....
sbb both side WARAS dan RASIONAL....

tp kalau 1 pihak je WARAS... 1 pihak lg x WARAS.. ...

thats why nak carik pasangan kena memilih

blackmore

Originally posted by afja at 8-5-2008 17:03



ni nk kena jwb dgn WARAS....

yes i do agreed with u....

mcm yg aku dh ckp lah....kat page yg lps2...

kenapa hal kecik mcm tu.... x bincang terus....
talk from heart  ...