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my friend's wife ada affair ngan org lain..
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guys, jgn la gegado..
these days ada gak ke guna term andalusia.. i thought it's the going trend kawin lambat, men or women..
dah le tu.. takyah gegado... |
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curang = andalusia?? larik tajuk tul.. |
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Originally posted by Nash^Roy at 8-5-2008 03:50 PM 
geng.. jgn la gaduh.. cool it..
i'm cool bro .. Friday evening usually me and the guys lepak kat Dome KLCC until 9pm .. kalo lu ngan member lu wanna have some guys talk we can open breakaway table .. pm me kalo nk join .. kalo ko tk dtg maybe aku lepak kejap jer sebab nak kene pegi Malaysia Telecoms Awards kat Mandarin Oriental .. |
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sory la geng.. so far takde updates la.. dah mcm tak panas dah ..  |
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Reply #1043 kudajantan77's post
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Originally posted by pu3_krizalid at 8-5-2008 16:10 
curang = andalusia?? larik tajuk tul..
takde le sangat kot.
Andalusia ialah orang yg takkan curang walau dalam ape keadaaan sekalipun. Yang curang pula semestinya bukan juga andalusia juga.
Bezanya pun ada. lagu bertajuk andalusia dendangan m nasir sangat popular satu ketika dulu. Namun tiada satu pun lagu bertajuk curang yang popular.
eh... ape aku merepek ni? |
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Reply #1045 Hana's post
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ala Na.. takyah la amik port... term tu dah obsolete... not applicable la Na... |
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Originally posted by afja at 8-5-2008 04:16 PM
eben kalau selidik punya selidik...
lack dr lelaki 
x pe lah.... pompuan SABARRRRRRRRRR....
perkataan utk har ...
nama pun pompuan...org akan sebut爏ampai爇e爉ati..kalo salah sikit...malang爐ul爊asib爌ompuan... |
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kalo asyik sabar je baik haku duk sabah.... |
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Reply #1055 afja's post
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itu la kita tanya.. zaman ni ada gak ye yang guna... term tu dah tak relevant lagi.. takyah la amik port ja oi.... |
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Originally posted by kudajantan77 at 8-5-2008 04:13 PM
i'm cool bro .. Friday evening usually me and the guys lepak kat Dome KLCC until 9pm .. kalo lu ngan member lu wanna have some guys talk we can open breakaway table .. pm me kalo nk join .. kal ...
'the guys' tuh saper kuda? kenkawan duda and ex-duda ko ker? 
bagus kalo ader porem mingguan camnih... |
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...pompan yang dah bersuami doesnt get into a relationship with other man for no rhyme or reason...kalau adalah pompan yang menjalinkan affair ngan other men walhal the husband has treated her rite and good and has showered her with all the love and wealth yang ada...then pompan tu memang pompan yang tak tau nak mensyukuri rahmat dan rezeki yang dah dikurniakan padanya...tak dapatlah kita nak menolongnya lagik...
...i believe that for any extramarital affair to start...there must be the contributing factors...something must have gone wrong with the marriage and at home...that intimate connection between themselves and their spouses kind of missing...chemistry antara dorang dah tak produce any sparks anymore...
...this happens when either one of them becomes disillusioned...becos....his or her needs are not met...aku kata disillusioned sebab...apa yang mereka idamkan dan cita2kan tidak tercapai...segala perancangan yang dibuat semasa belom berumahtangga tidak menjadi...tidak terlaksana...oleh itu...segala apa yang diidamkan tidak dapat dikecapi...when your goals and expectations are not met...u will be frustrated with yourself...your spouse and your marriage...and u tend to put the blame more on to your spouse for failing to meet those expectations...and i think this is what probably yang terjadi kat member ko...his wife is blaming everybody for the things that she has done...except herself of cos...
...well...if u look at it secara kasar...memang nampak seperti dia tidak mau mengaku bersalah...but...kalau ko kaji lebih dalam sikit...u will see that shes actually very frighten rite now...she noes that she is in deep trouble...and shes being very defensive...for every actions that she has done...she has got the justifications to them...tapi...mungkin jugak her justifications are true...mungkin jugak kawan ko kurang memberi perhatian pada dirinya...mungkin jugak rumah yang sepatutnya is a haven is merely an empty place to return to...ada anak tapi anak yang sepatutnya mengeratkan lagik hubungan mereka berdua tiada di rumah...instead...mak mertua kawan ko plak yang menjaga anaknya itu...
...kalau selalu berdua tapi pandai mengisikan masa bersama dan bermesra slalu mungkin jugak it can boost their relationship further...tapi...kalau slalu bersama tapi takde masa tuk each other or tak tau nak buat aktiviti bersama...dia ngan hal dia dan isterinya ngan hal isterinya...maka walaupon dorang duduk dalam satu rumah...walaupon tiada anak yang mengganggu/take up their time...lama kelamaan...mereka berdua akan menjadi terasing dalam rumah sendiri...
...kalau isteri tu seorang yang kuat imannya...yang tidak mudah terusik emosinya...insyaallah...dia ada dia punya coping mechanism untuk memujuk hati dia yang frust...tapi...kalau dapat isteri yang emosinya mengawal akal...akan timbullah perasaan yang she deserves more...she deserves something better that what her husband had given her...bila dah de perasaan begini...dan bila suami dia continuosly tidak endahkan keinginan dia dan memandang remeh akan perkara nie...lambat laun...si isteri nie akan shut down emotionally towards her husband...dan...bermulalah dia beramah mesra ngan lelaki lain...yang dapat memberi dia apa yang dia idamkan...
...that disillusionment kind of leads to her thinking that she has every rite to go for what she desires for...and this often leads to involvement with someone else....maka bermulalah episode hitam dalam hidup seorang wanita yang bergelar isteri...
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Post time 8-5-2008 04:09 PM
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