Dilema seorg bini polis/askar/etc..(yg berpindah randah)

mata_bulat

Originally posted by manakautau at 15-2-2008 11:49 PM


Naper???? Abg2 beruniform kat Msia ni gajik kecik ker sampai isteri2 terpaksa kena kuar keja ????

Tu yg sampai Manak perhatikan yg sampai berpangkat ASP pun isteri masih kena keja ju ...

Rasuah ni yang nampak abg polis je tapi abg bukan polis pun melambak tapi tersorok   selamat depa ni org ramai tak tahu

manakautau

Originally posted by easy81 at 15-2-2008 10:59 AM
salam...
aku bukak thread ni sbb:
1) nak ajak akak2 kwn2 abg2 yg ade pengalaman spouse yg career berpindah randah. mcmmane nak cope on dgn situation nih..

2) nak mintak akak2 motivate sket a ...

" Wahai para suami, sampai bilakah kamu mahukan isteri kamu terus-terusan keluar bekerja membantu kamu  dalam mencari rezeki buat keluarga?????"

Mungkin ujian TUHAN yg kali ini lebih pada suami kamu utk fikirkan easy 81??????

Fikir2kanlah, renung2kanlah......

ABAH35

Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 15-2-2008 07:55 PM


a'aa i m sabahan..

kementerian keselamatan dalam negeri

dok sini, buleh ar elaun wilayah dan elaun perumahan wilayah..

sabah ada orang jawa ke kak?

easy81

kak mimie..
memg la ko ni bernasib baik gak..tahniah..tahniah..Kat johor ni kalu keje sejengkal dari rumah tu mmg bole saving banyak jugak.Johor ni cume satu yg lemah sket..transportation die..negeri tanah luas..tapi development agak slow jugak. tak tau la kalu ade WPI nanti...Mungkin masa tu sume org belumbe2 nak dok johor. jgn penuh s'porian dah la..org johor dok menyewa rumah org s'pore di tanah johor.
ish..bercurrent issue plak aku..

kiut miut..
yes..aku accounting field gak..keje pun dah ok gak..tu yg malas nak benti..kalu benti pun maybe kalu aku dpt badan berkanun ke gomen ke..InsyaAllah aku benti lah...Ko apply tak lhdn aritu?

manak...
ko ni selalu lari topic n manipulate statement org kan. mgkin terase HEBAT kot buat cenggitu..
bukan polis pun,,rame isteri2 same2 keje..ade masalah ke?
kalu ko dok kerajaan kebajikan..sana sini free mungkin bukan kate bini, ko pun tak payah keje. ade elaun utk jobless.tapi ade ke negara mcm tu?

bercakap melalui fakta dan hakikat sebenar kat m'sia nh..fresh grduate kalu banking line starting ko bole lah 2k..keje kerajan plak 1600-1800.sekarg dah naik...starting pun dah lebih. keje swasta pun range2 tu gak.jarg2 sekalilah.. FGrd bole dapt lebih 3k..klau multinasional co maybe ade..kalu ko oversea grd pun bole dapt. sbb tu rame nak keje gomen skrg ni ye..basic campur elaun bole cecah 3k gak bang..mcm polis , ptd badan berkanun..

gaji banyak mcm mane yg en manak maksudkan ye? adalah melampau kalu muda belia mcm saye ni nak gaji 10k mcm abg manak...di negara kebajikan pun tak mungkin dapat...

manakautau

Ni nak tanya ni....kalau abg kat rumah tu keja sorang memang tak cukup ker?????

Takkan tanya cam gitu pun dah marah??????

Kalau sekadar utk hidup tu cukup,Manak, tapi utk nak penuhi cara hidup tu yg tak cukup....maybe easy81...boleh beritahu Manak tak?????

Ni sekadar tanya jer tau.......???

Cretin.Penguin

Think of it, when enough is ever enough?...     Or maybe, the wives are career women before marriage & so used to it that staying at home will kill them bit by bit?  Anyway, to each is their own...  

But, my point is.... money is not always everything.

LostSoul

cretin.penguin, money is not everything but it is something. as long as we have enough to live comfortably, not luxuriously, and teach our heart and mind to be scontented with what we live on with, then it would be ok..

living a rock n roll live with no money also would not be fun, eh?

manakautau

May just make husband more complacent..........isteri ada to complement dalam mencari rezeki buat keluarga......sampai bila?????

Buat malu kaum suami jer.........

Kawan Manak sorang tu keja ASP bila Manak lecture dia pasai naper dia masih nak kan isteri dia keja jugak jawapannya....." Biorlah Manak, kan ringan sikit duit aku tiap bulan....kalau nak pasang lagik satu ada chance....""

dianthe

manak, kalau keje yg smthing cam hobi cemana? bukan utk cari duit.. cam suka2 lukis, pastu jual.. dapat duit.. itu kira membantu suami tak?

manakautau

Hobby sundirik.....buat makan sundirik jer kot????

dianthe

kelekut punya binik

Cretin.Penguin

Noted and agreed; although that's not actually my meaning.  Sorry if my 2cents worth gave U that notion.   People have their reasons for taking certain actions in their life, who are we to judge when we don't even have the real subjects.  This is just a general scenario which warrant suggestions but not limited to a certain interpretation and fixed judgment.  BTW, RnR life don't always glitters as it seems...  And yeah, money has to come into play, but not the only factor.

A seemingly old & ragged looking couple walking hand-in-hand, smiling with each others; while big cars buzzing by ....  In my book, they are rich and living life worth living....  Gimme that life, I'll trade it with those Beemers etc; anytime...  Call me a dreamer, give me a smile just dreaming about it.  I guess I'm still a kampung boy deep inside my big city suit that will take a stroll in the middle of a paddy field in my hometown; while in the real world people see me pacing around my yard... smiling.

Growing old together with your loved ones is the only thing that I wishes for.  Never mind the wrinkles & flabby skins, husband and wife should be honored to be able to live their life to the fullest; for better or worst...

manakautau

Originally posted by easy81 at 15-2-2008 10:59 AM
salam...
aku bukak thread ni sbb:
1) nak ajak akak2 kwn2 abg2 yg ade pengalaman spouse yg career berpindah randah. mcmmane nak cope on dgn situation nih..

2) nak mintak akak2 motivate sket a ...

easy81......ni kalau Manak jadik somi hang lah yer...olok2 jer tau....

" Udah lah tu syg, abg tengok syg ni abg yg rasa serba salah.......bukan pertama kali dah hampir setiap kali abg kena tukar, syg yg stress sebab nak pikirkan keja syg...udahlah tu abg dah ambil keputusan......syg tak yah kerja lagik...dok rumah jer....apa gaji yg abg dapat tiap bulan , itulah yg kita gunakan...mana2 yg agak tak cukup tu...syg pandai2lah cuba cukup2kan...abg akan usahakan kerja2 lembur  utk cukupkan apa yg kurang tu........INSYAALAH...sayang jgnlah khuatir....selagi abg nak berusaha lebih demi tanggungjawab abg sebagai ketua keluarga utk mencarik rezeki buat syg dan anak2.....ALLAH akan mempermudahkan rezeki kita dan anak2,INSYAALLAH."

Maybe easy81 wants to get your hubby to read luahan Manak ni?????

Gemukkkkkkk

  .....  --->  

wulan_cinta

Originally posted by manakautau at 16-2-2008 12:36 PM


Ni nak tanya ni....kalau abg kat rumah tu keja sorang memang tak cukup ker?????

Takkan tanya cam gitu pun dah marah??????

Kalau sekadar utk hidup tu cukup,Manak, tapi utk na ...

zaman dlu bole la sekarang sume pakai duit maaaa

kiutmiut

Originally posted by easy81 at 16-2-2008 12:28 PM
kak mimie..
memg la ko ni bernasib baik gak..tahniah..tahniah..Kat johor ni kalu keje sejengkal dari rumah tu mmg bole saving banyak jugak.Johor ni cume satu yg lemah sket..transportation die..n ...

hehe...aku tak mintak pun...sedar2 dah tutup...

LostSoul

hiya there fella dreamer..  heh heh your words are what my sentiments exactly.   money is not the priority, having some to cover what we need is enough to give us a sound foundation to build happiness. i myself often amaze at how villagers manage to live contentedly, with only few hundreds that they earn every month.  these few hundreds are more than enough to put abundant food on the table, to pay bills, to give their children education, and even to occasionally buy titbits for nieces and nephews live next door. the phrase that "when your earning grows, your wants grow bigger too" contains some truths then. and it is not easy to teach ourselves to be satisfied with what we have...

anyway, sorry if i misinterpreted your meaning in the start, but i did get there in the end.

easy81

aku tinggal jap g masak, makan, semayg..nengok tv jap..dh panjg bejela korg..
ok..aku memg sokong..money is not everythg..
selain kerja utk bantu family...saving...yg penting jugak utk kepuasan diri sebenarnya. bile ko da belajar penat2, ko mesti nak menterjemahkan ape yg ko belajar tu utk polish otak/skills/knowledge kan?
ape org kate tu..pisau lame tak pakai bole tumpul..erk..betulke peribahasa aku ni?

so cenggitu la aku rase..

pasal sorg bekerja tu tak cukup ke?(soalan manak)
jawapan aku..cukup....

cukup utk makan, utk saving sikit, bayar hutang, ins 3 beranak..

selame ni pun gaji aku utk bayar nursery anak, saving, ins mak aku n bagi mak kat kampung. aku tiade tanggungan hutang. hutang2 yg terpakse seperti kereta, ins 3 beranak sume husband aku.

jadik, husband aku memg tak kesah aku benti tapi aku sendiri yg terasa ralat. yg paling aku pk sekrg ialah mcmmane nak tolong mak bapak aku.

aku, memg tnggugjawab laki aku. tapi sbg anak, aku merase ade tgjwb terhadap ibu bapa setelah mereka membesarkan kite. tak kire lah walau diorg harap atau pun tak.

ok manak..tak payah la nak pretend jadik laki aku. laki aku pun dah lame ckp mcm tu kat aku. die suh aku  benti kalu rase susah berpindah randah. die kate, kite bole adjust nanti idup kite. mcm kurgkan ape sepatutnye. tapi, utk makluman life style aku memg typical kampung jugak. takde mintak2..yg mlebihi earning kitorg. tak perlu baju branded2 pun..tp alhamdulillah org tetep puji cantik baju ko..beli kat butik mane? (hehe...ckp dgn ko, kene belagak sket..memg aku sengaje belagak )

so kan..masalh kat sini adalah aku yg taknak dok umah..main point nye mengikut priority:
1) sbb aku tau aku ade potensi diri utk maju dlm career aku
2) sbb nak tolong mak bapak aku
3) sbb nak tolong meningkatkan ekonomi keluarga khususnya anak2
4) sbb nak membantu mnyumbag kepada ekonomi negara amnye. bile ade pekerja bagus mcm aku, maka company pun akan maju, expend, bole jana ekonomi..pastu amek rame pekerja..bole la kurgkan sket pengangguran kat m'sia ni..gdp pun meningkat,eraning power meningkat..kurgla masalah sosiol sket...dan malaysia akan aman dan makmur..

sekian....over gitu jawapan aku...
ok..aku nak cebok berak anak aku nih...

nighunter71

Originally posted by easy81 at 16-2-2008 05:07 PM
aku tinggal jap g masak, makan, semayg..nengok tv jap..dh panjg bejela korg..
ok..aku memg sokong..money is not everythg..
selain kerja utk bantu family...saving...yg penting jugak utk kepuasan ...

Abg night maleh nak tanya..takut lagi panjang ko jawab...letih nak baca...

NURMIMIE

Originally posted by ABAH35 at 16-2-2008 08:44 AM


sabah ada orang jawa ke kak?

bah.. ko pangei aku kakak neh, mcm confirm jer aku tua dari ko

a'aa bah.. kat sabah pun ada jawa gak.. kat kampung aku, boleh ler katakan 50% jawa.. nenek aku pun jawa gak