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Reply #37 aw76's post
nunul dah bg meset kat dia...tp smpai skang tak reply.... |
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Reply #41 ezan80's post
harap2 dia pun mcm tu... |
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Reply #42 nunul's post
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relax.....your job is done....skrang move dia....doakan aja and tawakkal...if it is meant to be yours, it will be yours... |
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Reply #44 aw76's post
yeah....betul tu,
nunul tak penah benti berdoa,
tp kali ni nunul betul2 beruaha untk dptkan dia,
tapi berbaloikah?
nunul nak sedikit kegembiraan dan bahagia seperti org lain jugak...sedikit pun jadila....bahagia dengan dia... |
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Reply #45 nunul's post
nunul..
i notice you always worry about the outcome...doubting whether this will work...
remember that semua ni ketentuan tuhan...you just do your best and pray for the rest.
berbaloi? off course...at least you have faced your fears...dapat alhamdulillah...xdapat at least you are stronger for the next time around.
everyone wants happiness..There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.
my prayers are with you.. |
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Reply #46 aw76's post
sape yg tak takut,
sape yg mahu sglnye berakhir dgn perpisahan...ni kan pulak tak sempat nak kecap apa itu cinta,
thnx aw76, awk byk bg semangat pd sy,
entahlah....semangat tu ada....cume saya perlu kuat nak hadapinye nnt.... |
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ye same2  |
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love is not about how you feel about someone but how that person makes you feel about yourself..
bukan nak jinx ke ape....tapi if the outcome is not you expected...it's better to get it now then later....the damage is minimal....let say...jadi couple ..then after the sacrifices you made to make things work and takdir brings it all down..the hurt will be more..so prepare for the worst...
doa..doa..doa...
gotta go.. done for the week..won't be on-line till monday..
again...i will pray for your success.. |
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Reply #49 aw76's post
ye betul....doa...
n kena redha
thnx aw76.... |
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suka dengan buah fikiran aw76... . bernas |
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saje nak share...
What is Love and What is Marriage...? ??
A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat
field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: -
you can go through them only once & cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat,
but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger
one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he starts to
realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he
knew he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher
told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for better ones, but
when later you realize, you have already missed the person...."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn
field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you
can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to
repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he
has picked one medium sized corn that he felt satisfied, and came back
to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for
one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best
one you get.... this is marriage."* |
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Reply #53 nunul's post
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a really nice comparison.....big, small or medium sized corn...it doesn't matter. What you pick is what you have to live with..and make the best out of it.. |
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Reply #51 sitisarah74's post
betul!!!!....
tak sabar nak dgr next tips dr dia lagi...:pompom: :pompom: :pompom: |
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Reply #54 aw76's post
monin aw76!!!!
berite baik kot...hehe...myb next date sy dgn dia pd majlis kenduri kwn nnt...hope berjln lancar...ekceli sy dan member plan n pakse dia dtg kenduri n pick me up.
rasenye tak salahkan kalau buat plan mcm tuh kan....kan...kan! |
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Reply #56 nunul's post
morning...
congrats....that's a good start....ajak gi kenduri..(hope kenduri kawin - boleh dpt berkat) biasa orang jarang tolak gi kenduri kawin....kalau party tu lain le....
anyway...kawtim ngan member tu.....suruh dia pegi missing (AWOL) masa kenduri...buat alasan kena blah ke ape.....supaya u can spend some time together with him....find mutual grounds and interest... and take things from there. meanwhile do research on him...what's his interest? likes/dislikes....does he has a good sense of humor.....find some good clean jokes that'll crack him up...practice and practice....
btw...bila kenduri tu? hopefully soon...
don't know if this helps...but since i wrote in this thread...after prayers, i've panjatkan doa so that you get what you wanted...hope Allah terima and beri yang perkenankan doa tu...setakat 10 saat berdoa...everyone should do it...if not for us for others..meh kawan2 semua...kita doa for each others....tak kisah about what....hopefully others will doa for us cos what goes around comes around... |
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lupa lak ....before i forget...don't know if it helps....since your friend and that guy you like is coming to pick you up...why not ask your friend to call/sms/text/fax... you right after your friend meets him...tgk camne dia dress.....maybe you can match color/style..and relay the info to you ASAP.....so that you can coordinate your clothes to match his...mungkin bila dia nampak you dia rasa "aik...cam couple lak"....mungkin he start to feel something in his heart...kita try from all aspects...no stones unturned..
just make sure you have time to prepare yourself... and please dress to impress....
adios... |
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Reply #57 aw76's post
hehhe...bukan kenduri kawen aw...kenduri naik buai,30hb ni. leh jugak amik berkat kan...
si dia, ade reply sms sy taw, dia ckp "kena turun tolong kenduri ke?"heheh....sbnrnye dia tak taw pun tu kenduri naik buai....padan muke...dia gabra kot...
sebenarnya sy tak sure dia nak ambil sy ke, atau pun sy terpkse pergi sendiri, tp tak patut le dia tak ambil sy kan...lgpun dia bukan knl pun member sy tuh....hahahhahahah
sy dah fikirkan plan n trick yg awk bgtau tu...cume biase la, sy ni gabra dan selalu je ragu2...n tak tau le nak dibualkan semasa dlm kereta nnt?..
my bes fren ckp kan aw...saya perlu ambil masa, ataupun buat tempoh untk mengejas dia...myb dlm sebulan atau dua bulan untuk tahu isi hati dia pd saya...n, kalau dia nak cuba(bercinta la) bg masa untuk mengenali hati masing2...myb dengan cr itu kita leh tau result nye camne kan???
my bes fren ckp lagi..."at least bile mamat tu tgk ko smgt nak ejas dia,insyaAllah, tersentuh hati dia"....n lagi..."bile kite terbuka hati nak kawin, mesti ada jln ke arah itu"....
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'naik buai'? ...tak kisah le asalkan ada chance nak spend time with that guy..kalau dia pegi that's a good start...kalau dia tolak and reason dia tak masuk akal...kene adjust area lain le...tu worse case scenario le...
dalam kereta on the way..just be yourself...jangan 'over' excited sgt...jaga sopan santun..lelaki pun nak tgk budi bahasa, sopan santun seorang wanita..jgn terkinja2 cam beruk kene belacan....keeps conversation light..spread even among all in the car...tak payah detail2...keep it simple..just to break the ice..
what your best friend cakap tu betul....it will take time for him to adjust to your presence and be comfortable with you enough to divulge true his feelings..you have to watch for certain indication, the way he talks to you...his body language..his behavior when he's around you..kalau dia gabra, there is a chance he likes you and tak tahu how talk to you with out messing things up.. tempoh tu terpulang....sebulan 2bulan is a safe bet..give him some space...to absorb it all....
by that time...kalau dia makin mendekati you, means something...kalau dia menjauh or cuba mengelak you, there could be a problem but that's not the end of the world...some people take longer to accept it because of self-confidence or a bad history in relationship.. however sometime it takes less than 1 month...even hours...terpulang pada that guy. that's something we cannot control...xsalah kalau nak kenal hati masing2 before bercinta.....tak semesti hati lain2, takleh develop relationship...like they say "opposite attracts"...sometime..
actually it is an honor for a guy for girl to like him.....it means that the girls likes what she sees and know enough inside his heart to take a chance with him....don't know any man whose not single who wouldn't take a chance...fate comes in all sorts of manner..tapi tak bermakna the guy duk diam x buat apa2...if he is as good as you say..then he's a good catch...kalau dia betul2 honest...he will match the effort you have put into establishing the relationship and try to make it work...tu kalau dia betul2 gentleman...
that's a good friend you got there....don't forget to thank him/her for the advise....you need the support.
cheers. |
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terus terang je..
org kate better late than never(eh btol ke ayat aku neh?)
yg penting ko luahkan rasa hati ko..
soal kene rejek ke ape ke..jatuh no 2
kalo die tolak...ko kawan je lah..
tak yah fikir berat2.. |
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