Macam mana nak tau DIA lah Mr or Mrs Right kite

Hana · Post time 19-2-2008 04:32 PM

asyik pkir org lain ajek yg RIGHT..
abis tu..diri sendiri tu RIGHT ke tak utk org lain?

dea_nylea · Post time 19-2-2008 04:37 PM

adeh...terkedu jap bace post hana nih...

comelzz · Post time 19-2-2008 04:47 PM

Originally posted by eidazura at 19-2-2008 12:28 AM
Assalamualaikum wbh,

Nak minta kengkawan sume cite cam mane u all bleh tau yg seorg lelaki atau perempuan itu adalah mr or mrs right atau pun jodoh kita.

Adakah sekali pandang ...

Hanya tuhan maha mengetahui....

anonymous · Post time 19-2-2008 05:04 PM

tul tue... hehhhee

mbhcsf · Post time 19-2-2008 05:27 PM

Originally posted by Hana at 19-2-2008 04:32 PM
asyik pkir org lain ajek yg RIGHT..
abis tu..diri sendiri tu RIGHT ke tak utk org lain?

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alaa...Hana...it's relativity lah dear. Measured and being measured.
But to learn loving a person u never had any acquaitance before it's pretty hard lah. U do not know you are in the same wavelength as his. The mind, the thinking...etc..i think it can be done but that's not gonna beeasy. There should be a starting point somewhere so that each could relate. That's what the basi of SEKUFU. Chemistry is important. Yang pasal solat etc tu mmg screening lah .Kalau tak payah lah lerr...takut .
Mr RIGHT = Mr compatible. In what sense in certain aspects...in which your personal criterion would say " yeah...the right ...mind set, attitude. laid belief etc" and original. Not too pleasing or appears to be impressive sangat.

Hana · Post time 19-2-2008 06:33 PM

Originally posted by mbhcsf at 19-2-2008 05:27 PM
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alaa...Hana...it's relativity lah dear. Measured and being measured.
But to learn loving a person u never had any acquaitance before it's pretty hard lah. U do not know you are in the sa ...

nak mencari Mr Compatible pun bukan senang jugakk..

Dlm pengalaman hidup saya..melihat org2 lain..rata2 org2 yg kawen awal tu..
derang bercinta lama sejak zaman sekolah or derang abaikan compatiblity tu..derang kawen dulu then baru cari "keserasian"
itu pasal laa derang2 kawen awal tu..

mbhcsf · Post time 19-2-2008 07:18 PM

well..Hana if life has been very kind and easy for them let it be. Alhamdulillah. Tak per not a problem. Carilah keserasian tu rasanya bila depa dah macam tu then ..meaning they have built a chemistry dah tu.

ntah soal soal hidup macam ni leceh lah.kena buy time jugak.lepak lepak jer.

nenekglamer · Post time 19-2-2008 07:20 PM

Kengkadang tu, kelakar rasanya bila baca interview artis tentang lelaki/perempuan idaman mereka... ada yg cakap, nak yg bermisai la, yang cerah la, yang hidung mancung la bla bla bla... Meaning, they only judge someone basing on the physical characteristics je.

Aku sendiri daripada dulu mmg tak pernah tau lelaki camna yang aku suka. Bila orang tanya.. aku akan jawab, I would know when I found him. Kengkadang susah nak explain.

Pernah gak aku baca someone said, if a man makes you happy 90% of the time, he is the right one for you.

Opinions?

shachihata33 · Post time 19-2-2008 08:10 PM

kalau kawin dan kebahagiaan kekal hingga salah sorang mati, haa...dah jumpalah tu...

eidazura · Post time 19-2-2008 09:24 PM

Salam sume....

Thanx for the comments...sebenarnya apa yg eida maksudkan...bukan le mencari mr.right or mrs right...

Persoalannya adalah bagaimana kita pasti yang polan si polan atau pun polanah binti polan tu jodoh kita...Senang cakap bile u all dah pasti nak kawin ngan jodoh u all...pe kah tanda-tandanya yg u all confident memang dialah org nya selain daripada ciri2 yg u all idamkan...

Melalui gerak hati ke???de signs2 tertentu ke dari si dia...ataupun mmg wajah dia ker yg u all termimpi hari2...

Either u r suit each other or chemistry....ini terpulang le pd kriteria yg u all letakkan...klu letak agama tentu ler syariat menjadi landasan pemilihan....

Agul · Post time 19-2-2008 09:30 PM

Originally posted by mbhcsf at 19-2-2008 05:27 PM
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alaa...Hana...it's relativity lah dear. Measured and being measured.
But to learn loving a person牋u never had any acquaitance before it's pretty hard lah. U do not know you are in the sa ...

That's the ting. Being on the same wavelength.

Much like a square block can't fit a round hole.

eidazura · Post time 19-2-2008 09:32 PM

Originally posted by cikebum at 19-2-2008 03:39
yg dok sbelah kanan la. haha.

rasanya tak pernah ada mr.wrong atau mr.right. jodoh semua dah ditentukan dalam qada & Qadar. kalau kita ditakdirkan berumahtangga dengan seorang jackass, maka i ...

Hermmm
tq cikebum...4 da benificial infos...

eidazura · Post time 19-2-2008 09:34 PM

Originally posted by Hana at 19-2-2008 16:32
asyik pkir org lain ajek yg RIGHT..
abis tu..diri sendiri tu RIGHT ke tak utk org lain?

eida mmg x perfect sbb tu sampai skang msh single...

x de sapa lg yg sudi nak melengkapi kekurangan diri ini...

Agul · Post time 19-2-2008 09:35 PM

Originally posted by eidazura at 19-2-2008 09:24 PM
Salam sume....

Thanx for the comments...sebenarnya apa yg eida maksudkan...bukan le mencari mr.right or mrs right...

Persoalannya adalah bagaimana kit ...

Drunken in love, one's judgement will falter. They will see red as blue, black as white etc...
The only way is to mantain non-attachment to anything.

Still, you may never know anyway.

Ada cara untuk mencuba, tapi tak tahulah pendapat awak sama ada ujian ini reliable atau tidak...

eidazura · Post time 19-2-2008 09:36 PM

Originally posted by kupu2siang at 19-2-2008 02:15
kalo ade tanda right kat dahi dia maknanye dia mr/mrs right kte le tu..

Klu lbh dari 3 ke 4 org yg bertanda right...camane????

bizsari · Post time 19-2-2008 11:17 PM

eidazura · Post time 20-2-2008 11:18 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 19-2-2008 21:35

Drunken in love, one's judgement will falter. They will see red as blue, black as white etc...
The only way is to mantain non-attachment to anything.

Still, you may never know anyway.

...

Salam sume???
Ada test ???probably i can have it....juz for fun....

Agul · Post time 20-2-2008 11:59 PM

Kalau nak tahu semua benda, agak mustahil sebab sesetengah perkara tu memang kita tak akan tahu.

Boleh tak kita tahu kita dah dapat apa yang kita nak, kalau kita tak tahu apa yang kita nak?

Senaraikan apa yang awak nak. Apa saja ciri2 lelaki itu.Selagi tak ditulis, selagi itu teraba2...

Dah siap senarai tu, biarkan. Kalau suatu masa nanti terjumpa orang yang banyak ciri2 macam dalam kertas tu, mungkin itulah orangnya. Mungkin.

mbhcsf · Post time 21-2-2008 05:45 AM

macam mana nak tahu?
if his name is Joe Wright? ahaks ni director of atonement and pride and prejudice.

question ni akan selama - lamanya will be the "IT" of the ever guessing question of humans.

sebabnya , kiat sendiri pun tahu hal hal yg sebegini hanya ALLAH jer yg tahu the answer to thispandora's question. Kan ada 4 perkara lagi yg kita dah ditentukan , kan? the ajal, the rezeki / provision , the jodoh and etc.So that's why the question of soulmate ni menarik sebab it's not within our grasp.

so apa konklusi TUAN RUMAH ?

chemist_UTM · Post time 21-2-2008 08:39 AM

there's no mr right...nobody perfect..
kita terlalu sibukc ari mr right...cari kesempurnaan...sampai sumtimes kita tak sedar yg kita pun punya ketaksempurnaan...

for me..

i use the word he's the one..

my definition...

he's the one when....

he's always there in watever situation...when im up and down..

when anything happen..he the 1st who across my mind to inform or to contact..

when...i met sumone better...who's more handsome...richer...ada nama...ada kedudukan...but i said "NO" to him coz in my mind & heart juz "HE"..

when i start to set a gap between me & other guys...

when i start to share everythg wit him..

when he willing to accept me seadanya..as myself not org lain..

when he's always be my hero...

when i cant forget him..altho in 1 second !!!