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5 TAHUN BERAKHIR SUDAH.. dilema anak di boarding school..??!!
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Originally posted by peahjamboo at 17-1-2008 01:05 PM 
few month je cenggitu...
biase la memula...
samada die kena buli @ mmg die jenis manja...
tu je...
kena buli tu tak rasanya..
nak kata dia manja pun tidak rasanya..
dia anak yg paling brutal among anak2 i yg lain..
dia yg paling degil, paling selalu kena marah, paling peramah..
tapi tak tau kenapa kat ssp dia terkedu la pulak.. |
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Originally posted by raven at 17-1-2008 01:15 PM 
kena buli tu tak rasanya..
nak kata dia manja pun tidak rasanya..
dia anak yg paling brutal among anak2 i yg lain..
dia yg paling degil, paling selalu kena marah, paling peramah..
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suasana berbeza tu di rumah dia superior.
bila persekitaran baru dengan senior-senior mungkin
dia rasa kecil sikit give her some time.
i doakan dia boleh menyesuaikan diri. |
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Originally posted by abee at 17-1-2008 01:07 PM
ni mesti SSP kan? Tapi memang mula2 tu tough la kan......life macam langit ngan bumi beza die....anyway dr pengalaman my niece (now she's in Form 2 at SSP), mula2 tu memanglah sengsara yelah kat ...
yup, ssp..
this wiken baru dapat nak visit dia..
last week orientation week, tak boleh jumpa..
so aku ingat nak pretend la tanya pasal life dia kat sana..
in d same time aku pakai tips2 yg forum members kat sini bagi..
hopefully dia boleh accept logically..
schedule tido kat sana 11.30pm..
kena bangun 4.30am..
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Reply #1 raven's post
ohoooo....
refer to arasham's komen mungkin ada benarnya...suh dia cuba dulu...
tanya gak dia punya schedule belajar kat sana camner..since u ada ckp blom dpt jumpa dia afta register kan!!
as mother selalunya mmg mudah tersentuh hati bila dgr rintihan anak kan...try suh abah dia yg bg kata2 semangat..takut kang bila mak yg ckp..drama minggu ini pung bermula  |
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Originally posted by arasham at 17-1-2008 01:18 PM
suasana berbeza tu di rumah dia superior.
bila persekitaran baru dengan senior-senior mungkin
dia rasa kecil sikit give her some time.
i doakan dia boleh menyesuaikan diri.
sham aku takut kalau dia cuba punish aku balik laa.. |
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I jengok dia every week beri moral support
tak lagi spoil ker kalau kita jengok dia every week..?
takut dia lagi sendu la pulak.. |
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Originally posted by raven at 17-1-2008 01:30 PM
sham aku takut kalau dia cuba punish aku balik laa..
tak delah mesti tak lama lagi dia yang
terlebih seronok kat sana.doakan yang terbaikkan. |
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Reply #20 arasham's post
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Ha tengo tu.....betul kan... |
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Originally posted by raven at 17-1-2008 01:38 PM
tak lagi spoil ker kalau kita jengok dia every week..?
takut dia lagi sendu la pulak..
itu cara I. nak bagi tau dia yang I really
care kat dia. so walaupun dia kat sana I
tak abaikan dia. camne susah pun I akan
jengok dia dan sebagai gantinya dia mesti
cuba sedaya upaya menyesuaikan diri di sana.
and its work cuba bargain ngan dia bagilah
apa-apa alasan...cubakan.. |
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Originally posted by raven at 17-1-2008 01:38 PM
tak lagi spoil ker kalau kita jengok dia every week..?
takut dia lagi sendu la pulak..
aku rasa tak payah tengok dia every week... biar dia adjust kehidupan kat boarding dulu... biar dia adjust hidup bersama kengkawan.
memuler memang ler tough. tiap2 petang mmg ler tak bley rehat. sebab ader prep petang... tapi pandai2 lah adjust... bukan dorang marah pun kalo tido masa prep petang or prep malam... janji kena ader kat kelas or library.
aper yg aku gain masa dok boarding ialah aku lagik independent and bley kerjasama... semangat skool tinggi... cikgu rajin buat kelas tambahan...
always remember, excellent school = excellent results... insyaAllah
btw, masa weekend aku tgk ramai budak ssp merayau kat alamanda... okay jer.
ps: aku pun ssp gak dulu... kira super duper (duper, duper, duper.... duper) senior anak ko... ;) |
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Originally posted by arasham at 17-1-2008 01:43 PM
itu cara I. nak bagi tau dia yang I really
care kat dia. so walaupun dia kat sana I
tak abaikan dia. camne susah pun I akan
jengok dia dan sebagai gantinya dia mesti
cuba sedaya upaya men ...
actually aku tengah 50-50 ni..
initially aku sependapat dgn kikilalat..
kalau boleh aku takmo visit dia every week..
cuma nak dtg hari2 yg ditentukan saja..
apa pun, aku masih lagi 50-50 sekarang ni.. |
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summer pon.. memang dok kl sejak lahir.
tapi one day, masa form 2, mama tetiba nak hantar summer pegi boarding school, skolah sains.
time tu tengah hati muda, nak bersukaria, cinta hati kat sini, kawan ramai, tetibe kena hantar kat mana... kelantan tau.
selama setahun, summer takleh adapt ngan skolah tu. dok asrama, basuh baju ke.. apa ke..
bila balik cuti, bergayut ngan kawan2 menangis gile2 tanak balik.
sampai masa bukak skolah pon summer tanak kemas barang2 balik kelantan.
walaupun ramai cousin, summer takleh dok situ jugak. bila dah setahun lebih, baru summer dapat adapt. sebab dah serasi ngan kawan2, ada geng sendiri.
tapi problem nya pmr summer dapat rendah je time tu, terus mama hantar amik balik ke kl, sambung skolah biasa.
summer macam protes gitu sebab taknak dok klantan.
tapi, anak u bukan kena hantar pelusuk hulu.
lagipun, seri putri memang bagus. kalau die keluar, sayang sangat. die nak masuk mana2 pon senang lepas habis skolah.
budak2 skang ni maybe manja sket... cuma perasaan di asrama, memang sejak dulu smpi skarang macam tu laa. pujuk2 dia, tapi bagi dia masa adapt.
sebab itu utk kebaikan dia. |
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Originally posted by kikilalat at 17-1-2008 01:45 PM
aku rasa tak payah tengok dia every week... biar dia adjust kehidupan kat boarding dulu... biar dia adjust hidup bersama kengkawan.
memuler memang ler tough. tiap2 petang mmg ler tak ble ...
yeahhhh..!!
ex-ssp ada kat sini..
ni batch kat kolam air ekk..?
yg boleh keluar sendiri ke alamanda tu senior form 4 & form 5 ajer.. |
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Reply #33 raven's post
masa zaman aku la... budak2 yg keluar after a short while in boarding biasanyer budak2 KL yg mak bapak biasa datang on weekends... tapi bukan sumer la budak2 KL yg kuar...
aku dulu pun bukan suka pun dok boarding... tapi lamer2 okay la. kesan dok boarding tuh akan nampak masa pi uni or working... pada aku, part discipline yg boarding school ajar is priceless.
ko kata anak ko mean sikit... mebbe boarding will teach her what she cannot belajar at home... Wallahualam |
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aku dulu pun sekolah asrama. seronok giler nak experience. tapi reality was tough. i had to change a lot to adapt. i developed a tough facade, memula tersiksa batin, tapi pikirkan kerja yg i nak buat pun kerja lelaki, i bertahan je lah, last2 enjoy gak. i did excel, but i lost most of what made me a sweet little girl. and my frens ramai yg tak fulfill their potential due to peer/melayu pressure.
kalau anak i, takkan nyer i bagi dia masuk skolah asrama nih. sebabnya, for some kids to excel, some akan tertekan/oppressed dari segi belajar or in spirit. IMHO 10% akan excel, the rest akan average out, tak lebih dari yg sekolah biasa, in fact you'll realise that the average kat skolah asrama sometimes kureng dari skolah biasa kat KL. lainla kalau budak tu asal dari kampung.
so if your girl unhappy, you shud ask her what her dreams are. if it can be done without her sacrificing her spirits, why not balik to her school. after all once she leaves school, she's no longer your baby. lainlah if you think she is just spoilt and needs adjustment, then usually these girls will adjust, once dah ader gang. |
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Originally posted by cherub at 17-1-2008 02:09 PM
IMHO 10% akan excel, the rest akan average out, tak lebih dari yg sekolah biasa, in fact you'll realise that the average kat skolah asrama sometimes kureng dari skolah biasa kat KL. lainla kalau budak tu asal dari kampung.
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in certain boarding schools, mebbe that's true.
tapi ssp is one of the best (if not the best) boarding school in the country. our results speak for themselves...
ps: aiyo... TERbangga plak aku dgn skool sendiri... |
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An Education System Worthy of Malaysia #44
Chapter 7: Strengthening The Schools
by M. Bakri Musa
http://www.bakrimusa.com/archives/category/an-education-system-worthy-of-malaysia/page/2
Residential Schools
Residential schools are expensive and consume more than their fair share of the resources. Yet they do not have much to show. Even though they get the best students, the number of their graduates whoend up at top universities is far less than that of many private institutions. We should expect more. In my scheme the present residential schools would be in the academic stream.
As these residential schools get the top students, the mission should be to prepare them for elite universities. These students must be prepped for international examinations like SAT, AP, IB, or GCE A level. This means greater emphasis on English. In addition to teaching science and mathematics in English, I would also increase the hours devoted to English classes, as well as the number of subjects taught in that language. I would go even further and make these schools entirely English medium, with Malay taught only as a subject, just like the English schools of yore.
China is converting its top schools and universities into entirely English medium. It is doing so in the conviction that their top students should be exposed to global knowledge and competition. Note, Chinese language is far older and better equipped than Malay, yet Chinese leaders have no qualms in using English. They do not consider such a move as denigrating or in any way dishonoring their language or culture.
I would stop building new residential schools and concentrate on enhancing the output and quality of existing ones. These schools should cater only for the last four years, Forms 4 to 6. It should discontinue the present lower forms. At these levels the pupils are too young to be separated from their families. Further, the predictive value of the tests on which they were selected is not very reliable. Eliminating the lower forms would also effectively increase the output without incurring much additional costs.
Presently admission is based on merit. Unfortunately it is narrowly defined exclusively in terms of examination scores without considering other factors. A doctor抯 son with an 揂 |
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Post time 17-1-2008 01:18 PM
..sbb niat x nak dtg dah..tp..my dad ttp hntr blk hostel gak..
