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Originally posted by nunul at 13-12-2007 05:08 PM
saya takut,
saya takde kekuatan untuk itu semua...
kalau takut , you will never know where the friendship will go..
at least if you try..the outcome is 2....(i hope/pray for you the 1st outcome)
(1) he accepts you for what you are and vice versa....and work at building/streghtening the relationship together..
(2) he rejects your advances...at least you know he was not meant for you at the time....at least you don't shoulder the burden of thinking whether you had a future with him. Pick yourself up and move on...kinda hard but at least you now the truth...
takut tu mula2 aje...once you start it....and the feelings are true..the heart will take over...then your job is done...the rest is up to him and God..
Just do it.....or you'll regret it... |
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Originally posted by aw76 at 12/13/07 05:17 PM
kalau takut , you will never know where the friendship will go..
at least if you try..the outcome is 2....(i hope/pray for you the 1st outcome)
(1) he accepts you for what you are and v ...
bagus kalau dia accept saya,
walau ape pun,sy kena bersedia untuk direjek,
mungkin sbb takde kekuatan itulah saya tak mahu kehilangan dia...
skrg ni pun,sy dh aturkan bbrp plan,,,,hrp boleh berjy,
psl nak berterus terang tu, mungkin ambil ms...tp hati ni dah tak tahan dah
aw76,thanx byk2...kalaulah dia mcm awak....
....mmmm...entahlah.... |
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[quote]Originally posted by nunul at 13-12-2007 05:28 PM
best of luck and prayers for you....
how i can say so much on this matter..i was in your shoes recently....and i did it straight forward cos i cannot wait....bukan nak poyo but except in sleep i couldnt' get her out of my mind..and my gut said she was the one for me...my partner for life, the mother to my kids...
unfortunately the outcome was not in my favor....she had someone already for quite some years...and she intends to marry that dude...then i realized that my battle was over..I was defeated but at least i fought bravely and 'died' with dignity..
but at least i give my best shot....after the painful rejection, a burden was lifted. I know she was not gonna be mine so i don't have to worry about her anymore...life goes on.the pain is still there but at least I am alive. |
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die ckp rindu...xsemestinye die suke..mgkin die rindu ko as a fren ke..
so jgn terus ckp yg ko pn suke die....kang laen plak die pk..
ko boleh show ur interest tu thru ko caring kt die..jgnler terus ckp...
ko leh je ckp 'i miss u' tp ending sentence tu ko boh la pic senyum ke gelak ke..
u know..jgn terlalu ketara.....bagi hints je dlu.... |
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Originally posted by aw76 at 12/13/07 05:46 PM
[quote]Originally posted by nunul at 13-12-2007 05:28 PM
best of luck and prayers for you....
how i can say so much on this matter..i was in y ...
yelah...masing2 ade pengalaman sindiri yg mengajar untuk menghargai hidup,
terutama kpd org yg paling kita sayang,
sanggupkah kite meninggalkannya,
kata org kalau kita cintakan dia, lepaskan lah dia,dan kalau benar dia jodoh kita, dia akan kembali...
tapi saya tak kuat,
jika dibandingkan saya dan sidia, bgaikan enggang dengan pipit,
wlaupun interest kami berdua sama,
adakah tu tak bermakna kami boleh bersama??
layakkah saya?
mungkin saya akan berundur...saya dah give up....... |
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ramai kat sini suruh bagi hint dulu....majority rules....so bagi hint ajelah....takdele pressure sangat...
layak tak layak..enggang ngan pipit....tu small matter...tu mainan perasaan aje...
and giving up is the easiest thing to do......
but boleh ke u move on after giving up or will u be more worse than before..
just act on it aje.... |
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Reply #29 aw76's post
kite tunggu dan lihat aje...rase cinta tu takde lagi....tp suke n rindu dah lm.... |
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ezan dah cuba hint kat dia dgn nada bergurau..pas tu dia ketawa n ckp awk ikhlas ke.?nape dia tanye mcm tu ha?kena bgtau btl2ke?susah gak kan nak tawan hati lelaki ni.kena fokus btl2. |
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Reply #31 ezan80's post
ezan...ko bg hint cane hoh?....
nak try gak le... |
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Originally posted by ezan80 at 14-12-2007 10:26 AM
ezan dah cuba hint kat dia dgn nada bergurau..pas tu dia ketawa n ckp awk ikhlas ke.?nape dia tanye mcm tu ha?kena bgtau btl2ke?susah gak kan nak tawan hati lelaki ni.kena fokus btl2.
dia pun segak gak tu..tak pun suprise....cakap lagik... |
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ezan ckp dlm phone je..ezan kata mcm nie,awk saya ridulah,then dia tanye,rindu ngan sape?ezan ckp dgn awklah pas tu ezan ketawa...dia kata kelakar ke?awak ikhlas ke ckp ni?bkn main2?..ape maknanye tu kwn2??tapi dia tak ckp pun perasaan dia atau apa di rasa kat aku... |
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Reply #34 ezan80's post
ade hrpn tu ezan.....
hehehh...nunul tghari ni nak suh dia g semyg jumaat, nak ingatkan dia.....hehhe...mcm caring le gituw.... |
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Reply #31 ezan80's post
ckp jelah ko iklas tp ko pn wat la dlm nada joke gak...
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Reply #35 nunul's post
pesan ngan dia lepas emayang jumaat suruh doakan supaya Allah perkenankan doa u...kalau dia tanya apa yg u doa jgn cakap..biar dia ponder skejap...kalau dia smart dia akan tahu.... |
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Reply #37 aw76's post
wahhhh....great, brilliant and sengal nye idea....
tips ni yg membuatkan aku teruja nak test jap lagik....
tahniah untuk aku!!!!!!
toce...toce....pastu, kalu dia tak reply?....mesti sy akan down jek....isk....risiko tul! |
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alu tak dpt menahan perasaan yg aku terlalu rindu kat dia..adakah dia mcm tu
gak? |
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