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Reply #18 Sweetmama's post
alahai mama...cuma kasut sekolah, main dgn air lagi
kalo ironing , me pahamlaaa...takut terkujat plak anak2 dgn iron panas tu...
ingat2 balik...me iron baju sendiri masa umur 9 thn, iron utk abang dgn adik lagi.... |
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Reply #20 my-alja's post
i have to agree with you
ni kes berat punya handicap!!
nau'zubillah kalau la anak i turn out like that
mintak la tak jadi
tapi mintak2 pun kena la usaha
so cik dee dah tanamkan from now
chores2 yg cam tu boys or girls - you must do it yourselves! |
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Reply #21 my-alja's post
cik dee pun dah start iron baju sendiri at that time
for my adik jugak! |
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Originally posted by Sweetmama at 7-8-2007 12:54 PM 
heheheh alja, anak i yg sulung did said d sem tauuuu...
adoih lar, ur words tuh..
me ni haa, ada jugak maid masa tecik2 dulu.
tapi my nenek make me washed my own kasut
my own socks send ...
eh, mac takde maid tau! penat sangat nak sental kasut 5 pasang tau! hehe.
I made up my mind, lepas exam ni nak suruh mereka basuh kasut sendiri..... mama dia tak larat dah!
(but to tell u d truth, mac sendiri suka bab2 kapur kasut they all sampai putih....)
Bab ironning, maybe not, sebab still trauma dgn anak kena iron kat kaki dia.....
So iron ni mmg letak jauh2 dari kids.....
(anak sulung mac first time belajar iron 2 weeks sebelum nak masuk asrama bulan jan lepas ...... hehe.... sekarang dah pro....) |
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bila nak kena start suruh anak2 ni basuh kasut sebenarnya...?? selama ni semua bibik yg basuhkan...
tapi kasut sekolah dan stokin suma hitam... tak le ketara sgt kotorannya... |
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My son (now 11) washes his own shoes and does his own ironing. Of course hubby and I will help him out at times. But he knows this are his responsibilities. Masa mula-mula tu memanglah tak berapa bersih kasuh yang dia basuh tu. But I taught him how to do it and now its done alright. We can't expect kids to sit in the bathroom and menyental kasut dia orang tu. They have short attention span and prefer to play PS2/3 or computer games. I told my son to rendamkan his shoes in Vanish for a few hours and its easier to wash the shoes after that.
He does the washing on weekends with his little brother (5 years old). Its like time-out for them in the bathroom. With playing bubbles etc etc. They leave the door open so that hubby and I can monitor their antics just in case jatuh ke or whatever.
Actually basuh kasut is just one part of what my hubby and I impart to our kids. We try to raise our kids with the right values and not to rely on maids. We don't want them to be couch potatoes and grow up not knowing basic things like washing, cooking simple meals, keeping the house tidy, time management etc etc. The list goes on.... (off topic pulak nanti). |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 7-8-2007 05:07 PM
yelah dek naa....me lepas kenal dia, rasa bersyukur sgt sebab dididik dgn kepayahan masa kecik2...ye lah bukannya org senangkann ...
dia pernah cakap dgn me, kalo bukan sebab kepandaian ...
dia saja2 buat hopeless and taknak learn kut?
macam bab mandi baby tu, mac rasa, most of us punya 1st experience mandikan baby is when we have our 1st child kan? Memang from zero knowledge apa..... well, i learnt with my 1st child.... after 3 times dah expert. newborn baby pulak tu. |
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Originally posted by AnitaSabrina at 7-8-2007 07:00 PM
My son (now 11) washes his own shoes and does his own ironing. Of course hubby and I will help him out at times. But he knows this are his responsibilities. Masa mula-mula tu memanglah tak be ...
yes, mac pun tak believe maid buatkan kerje utk anak2....... and pantang larang mac anak2 lepak bilik maid or even tidur dgn maid. |
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Reply #30 my-alja's post
oh anak dah 3..ish itu bukan manja dah tuh alja..ngader ngader namanya.. manja2 i pun masa kecik jer  ..dah tuwo bangka beranak pinak xde manja2 dah.
i tinggal dgn my parents becoz i look after them beside they look for my child masa i pegi kerja. seblum pegi kerja dan balik kerja everythng i buat sendiri. pukul 4 pagi, i dah bangun masak utk my parents & anak. cuci baju etc. hantar anak gi sekolah, pastu gi kojer. then balik, buatlah apa2 yg patut. fuhh tak menang tangan dibuatnya. tak cukup masa pun iye gak. bila tang tido. aku tidor mati ekekekek.. |
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Reply #31 ButterCup's post
tu ahh butter...me bila sembang dgn dia, cakap aje...u nie ngada2 aje lebih...wakakakka
tapi lemas lah dgn org camni(tapi dia memang baik hati)...sebab terlalu manja, semuanya nak bergantung dgn org lain...jadi kalo mak takde , memang "hopeless"....
me selalu gak pesan kat dia, nasib baik u kahwin dgn anak prof. kalo dapat anak petani...cemana?....kita tak tahu jodoh anak kita nanti dgn sesapa kat dunia nie, jadi lebih baik equip diri anak2 dgn kemahiran hidup....insyaAllah dapat anak prof, bonus dlm hidup...tapi kalo dapat anak petani sekalipun, dia pandai nak bawa diri.... |
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kekadang pikir...awatla kat malaysia kasut, baju sekolah semua warna putih....kan senang kalau kasut kaler hitam  |
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tak pernah ke mac terfikir.....this is not my job!<img src="images/smilies/lol.gif" smilieid="9" border="0" alt="" /> ...and sampai bila nak kena cuci kasut depa nie?
samapi darjah 6 ajer..... boleh?
Yes its not my job tapikan kesian tau nak tgk they all terkial2 basuh..... hah! padanla muka aku kan??
Tapi smalam ni mac tgh baran dgn anak yg 11 tahun. Next week (lepas exam) nak suruh dia basuh kasut sendiri!!! Tak kuasa mac nak layan dah! |
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Reply #38 macademia's post
takpelah...by choice kan mac buat benda tu ...and you do have a choice if u dun want
if u dun mind, me rasa lebih baik bagi "task" cuci kasut nie sebagai tanda anak tu dah besar drp beri "hukuman" sebab dah bosan dgn perangai dia....takut nanti, secara tak sengaja kita tanam nilai yg bercanggah drp apa yg sepatutnya...
lepas nie nanti takdelah dia fikir...nak elak basuk kasut, i hv to be good |
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Post time 7-8-2007 01:14 PM
...tapi takpelah, mak selalu datang to rescue her
