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Post time 5-4-2011 04:42 PM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by my-alja at 5-4-2011 18:04

Reply 246# cn7

i realize the trend of sending kids as young as 3 years old to kindy,and i tot it was unhealthy. Unhealthy sebab i takut after a point, anaki akan jemu dengan kindy or later school. So i looked for those kindyyang not exam related (bukan buat homework jer) but more of doing motorskills activity daripada menghafal... so that lead me to Montessari.



mahal kan montessori?...i rasa dlm rm400-500 permonth

kalo u mampu cn7, all the way to international with british syllabus

in my opinion(could be wrong)....bila anak u dah mula kat montessori pastu masuk local skol
dia akan terkesima dgn suasana pembelajaran kat situ....kesian kat dia

tu sebab kami(i dan piza-hanna) sependapat...patutnya, sekolah2 kindy diseragamkan kat seluruh negara
cam kat UK sana, semua budak sama bodo.....sama cerdik, sama kaya, sama miskin akan bermula pd titik yg sama
nie anak org kaya masuk kumon, anak org miskin tadika kemas....dah tentu2 anak2 selebet akan ketinggalan
dalam sistem sekolah, kalo dia cerdik sekalipun...akan tertinggal dr segi self-esteem dgn anak2 org mampu

-edited-....teremosi

the best education system ...sekarang nie, rasanya kat finland
terbaca artikel pasal reseacher dr US pi sana utk belajar cara mereka...
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Post time 5-4-2011 04:43 PM | Show all posts
hihi...i dun believe semua anak2 apek nie masuk kelas memacam tu anak dia bole terrer
bakat i ...
my-alja Post at 5-4-2011 15:31



    tu dia...mak cik ni kalau dah ckp....mcm serangan israel kat palestine jer...

amoi yg u ckp tu..i tak igt la...

cer citer....cer citer...
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Post time 5-4-2011 04:47 PM | Show all posts
Reply  cn7




mahal kan montessori?...i rasa dlm rm400-500 permonth

kalo u mampu cn7, all  ...
my-alja Post at 5-4-2011 16:42



memang sangat mahal....lecturer i ada ckp...org2 yg bukak montesorri ni dah jauh menyimpang dgn prinsip montesorri tu sendiri...kalaulah montesorri ni hidup lagi...sure dia bagi pelempang sorang2 yg bukak montesorri ni...
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Post time 5-4-2011 04:48 PM | Show all posts
tu dia...mak cik ni kalau dah ckp....mcm serangan israel kat palestine jer...

amoi yg ...
hanna1905 Post at 5-4-2011 16:43


lorrr....amoi tu laaa, yg masa u nak sambung belajar tu
dia kan eksyen bebeno sebab u tak tahu pasal UK

cemana plak ai lebih ingat drp u?
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Post time 5-4-2011 04:52 PM | Show all posts
lorrr....amoi tu laaa, yg masa u nak sambung belajar tu
dia kan eksyen bebeno sebab u tak tahu  ...
my-alja Post at 5-4-2011 16:48



hahaha...hampess..betulkann...
kadang kita lupa apa yg kita dah pnh citer kat kawan....ni la gunanya kawan mengingatkan balik apa yg dah lupa..
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Post time 5-4-2011 04:54 PM | Show all posts
memang sangat mahal....lecturer i ada ckp...org2 yg bukak montesorri ni dah jauh menyimpang dg ...
hanna1905 Post at 5-4-2011 16:47


tu ahhh....kalo howard gardner tahu cikgu2 kat CEC nie duk jual nama dia
dah lama kena penampar dgn selipar jopun

nasib baik sekarang dah tukar motto....pakai keris
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Post time 5-4-2011 05:02 PM | Show all posts
sampai sekarang....tak pernah tahu kenapa org belajar naik kuda
my-alja Post at 5-4-2011 15:35



marilah kita bersama-sama meneka di dalam kesamaran.....

mungkin ikut sunnah nabi...ambik berkat...(kalau org jawa 'berkat' tu adalah makanan utk tetamu bawa balik.. hanya terdpt masa kenduri kawen sahaja...dan masih dipraktikkan dikampung2)

jahat i kann.....

sure kena i chop takder pegangan agama...
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Post time 5-4-2011 05:21 PM | Show all posts
Reply 264# my-alja


   
lorrr....amoi tu laaa, yg masa u nak sambung belajar tu
dia kan eksyen bebeno sebab u tak tahu pasal UK


yang ni i miss the boat lah... tapi kalau nak story boleh i tumpang sekali
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Post time 5-4-2011 05:24 PM | Show all posts
Reply 263# hanna1905


   
memang sangat mahal....lecturer i ada ckp...org2 yg bukak montesorri ni dah jauh menyimpang dgn prinsip montesorri tu sendiri...kalaulah montesorri ni hidup lagi...sure dia bagi pelempang sorang2 yg bukak montesorri ni...


ada 1 montessari kindy yang i berkenan sangat tapi sebab jauh dari my house & transport problem, i tak hantar la.

unikidsity.com

this owner antar anak dia ker south africa just to learn about montessari for 7 months. And according to the owner, anak pengasas Montessari ni sendiri ada buat a 'revised/improved' version of Montessari. Dia ada bagitahu, tapi i tak ingatla...teruk betul memory i lately.
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Post time 5-4-2011 05:28 PM | Show all posts
Reply 259# my-alja


   
apa yg menarik sgt pasal sichida nie dimata u?


satgi i story sebab yang ni nak kena type panjang... i reply mana yang i boleh reply pendek2 dulu  
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Post time 5-4-2011 05:36 PM | Show all posts
Reply 259# my-alja


   
do u think dgn belajar cara dia belajar boleh ubah budaya org2 kita?...errr..susah nak nampak

apa pendapat u?


ish kak, bila i antar my son tu ke sana i tak der la sampai membayangkan boleh mengubah budaya org2 kita ni...tu macam ambitious la pulak. besides, i think old habits die hard, alangkan pulak nak ubah budaya kita yang dah dibawak turun temurun.

nanti i story. Nak masak dulu.

but basically the key word is not result oriented, mother/child relationship, and also stimulate brain tu la
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Post time 5-4-2011 06:07 PM | Show all posts
tu dia...mak cik ni kalau dah ckp....mcm serangan israel kat palestine jer...

amoi yg ...
hanna1905 Post at 5-4-2011 16:43


cer jawab, cer jawab.....

ko percayalah apek/amoi kiasu tu piza....
dengar ye, percaya jangan.....

btw...rasanya cn7 ada citer pasal buku ..apa ye, tajuknya ada tiger mom
tadi tak bawa member kad, esok nak pi semula kedai buku tu....nak baca
apa yg best sgt dgn education mak2 kiasu nie
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Post time 5-4-2011 06:23 PM | Show all posts
Reply  my-alja
  

ish kak, bila i antar my son tu ke sana i tak der la sampai membayangka ...
cn7 Post at 5-4-2011 17:36


hehehe....i terbaca u tulis, suka dgn cara org jopun
dah tentu2 i terpikir...apa yg beza sgt ialah budaya mereka ....memang outstanding

ehh...i dah browse pasal method tu, ringkasnya cam howard gardner wt his multiple intelligence..kan?
dan i ada buku anak murid gardner ....provide step by step approach how to top up the ability  
like my eldest, dia punya intelligence dlm spatial dan intrapersonal...so mana2 yg kurang cam
linguistic, fizikal, interpersonal...i kena top up dr masa ke semasa

god knows, masa kindy....i have a lot of time to do this at home....
tapi sekarang, tak sempat nak buat apa2....diakan, young eksekutip oil and gas
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Post time 5-4-2011 08:05 PM | Show all posts
Reply 255# cn7

ada yang buat..

cuma kindy yang practice mcm ni bukan jenis franchise like CEC,smart reader and so on..setahu i lah..

contoh LORNA WHISTON (tak tau la betul ke tak spelling ni)..

my kids kindy pun byk ikut method mcm yang you sebutkan tu,ada cooking lesson,story telling,buat itu,ini..

mcm2 activity..

picnic pun ada..

plus ada lawatan sambil belajar kat kilang coklat la,taman burung la..

kids look forward sgt2 part ni..
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Post time 5-4-2011 09:47 PM | Show all posts
contoh LORNA WHISTON (tak tau la betul ke tak spelling ni)..
Reply 274# pinksarah

kak sarah antar anak ke sini ker?

lorna whiston ni....MAHALLLLLL sangat (bagi saya la)

tapi kalau nak rub shoulders dengan anak KJ menantu pak lah tu or norjuma, boleh ler.

setahu i, lorna whiston ni more for language, because the teachers are non-malaysian, semua native speaker kan.... activity pun maca, public speaking, choral speaking, story telling....more of language than self enrichment kan?
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Post time 5-4-2011 09:53 PM | Show all posts
w...rasanya cn7 ada citer pasal buku ..apa ye, tajuknya ada tiger mom
Reply 272# my-alja


   are you referring to amy chua's book? she was interviewed recently in one of the morning show in the radio right?
and the star had an article about her. about how she raised her 2 kids, the chinese way. how she highlighted the traditional chinese way of parenting kan?

in the article, they photographed her & her kids tengah main piano & violin...
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Post time 5-4-2011 09:55 PM | Show all posts
[quote]Rajin betul adik sorang ni quote....byk soalan plak tu.[/quote]Reply 260# hanna1905

i ni kadang2 memang banyak soalan...so before i lupa apa soalan asal yang i tanya, baik i quote kan dulu....supaya karangan i tak lari tajuk ...
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Post time 5-4-2011 10:55 PM | Show all posts
[quote]Rajin betul adik sorang ni quote....byk soalan plak tu.
Reply  hanna1905

i ni kada ...
cn7 Post at 5-4-2011 21:55 [/quote]


    hahaha...takper sambil tu boleh menambah kredit....mcm i dah lama dok forum ni tapi tak rajin nak menjawab tapi rajin mengendap...., dok la tang tu jugak..lately ni jer...tetiba ada angin nak menjawab..
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Post time 5-4-2011 10:57 PM | Show all posts
Reply  my-alja


   are you referring to amy chua's book? she was interviewed recently in one of ...
cn7 Post at 5-4-2011 21:53


star bila yer? cn7 dah baca ke buku dia? best tak?
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Post time 5-4-2011 11:00 PM | Show all posts
ah lama kena penampar dgn selipar jopun
Reply 266# my-alja

i dah lama tak nampak selipar jepun (yang terompah ni).

masa kat umah arwah nenek dulu, cukup suka pakai terompah ni...made from kayu, and tang sangkut kat kaki tu warna merah.

bila jalan kat dapur or amik semayang, bunyi ketak ketuk ketak ketuk {:1_134:}
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