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Author: AmMiNafeesa

Senario Anak2 bermain gadget dewasa!

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Post time 6-12-2011 07:12 PM | Show all posts
camne nak buat korang..me & my hubby mmg garang & tegas and discipline..so to most people, we are bad parents..hahahahha
ramai orang kata we all tak guna psychology nak didik anak..
actually, not true..i akan start menjerit bila dah cakap berkali2 tak dengar
(pernah baca yg bebudak ni kena cakap 1000 kali baru masuk & dengar..hahahahahah)
we are not perfect because we are human..
ada masa we all malas, yes, we will let the kids play their hearts out also..

but on reading to kids, i dont really do that..tak igt whether ada sampai 10 kali ke i buat..to me, that is personal choice..sbb minat membaca tak perlu ada game or takde game, you read to them or not..if you read to them, good because insyallah, when they become parents, they will read to their children..yg plg penting, do they see you reading regularly? do you share what you read with them?

dont know about orang lain, but my parents didnt read to me, but they read.
my sons, klu suruh reading, ya Allah, mmg masuk kanan kuar kiri je..
but if i take a book and read it in front of them, then they will follow suit..at least one of them..so my theory, children do what their parents do..
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 Author| Post time 7-12-2011 10:43 AM | Show all posts
camne nak buat korang..me & my hubby mmg garang & tegas and discipline..so to most people, we are ba ...
Ariys21 Post at 6-12-2011 19:12



    tak salah pun cara you didik anak2 you..it's depend on what we want our kids to be.
same goes to me..actually I strict jugak pada anak2....tak kisah ler orang nak kata kedekut ker kalau ada ipad buat main sendiri..tak nak kongsi ngan anak.
For me...selagi anak tu tak tau disiplin....gadget2 mahal ni tak payah buat mainan mereka..
itu sebab anak yg ke-2 asik melalak2 nak main my camera kalau nampak mak dia ni snap sesuatu.
Lantak lah anak ooii.
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Post time 8-12-2011 02:53 PM | Show all posts
ank aku...
aku bagi maen PSP jek..
kena beli 2 law beli 1 berebut pulak..
abg umur 7thn adik umur 3thn..
p sbelum maen kna belajor dl..udh belajor baru ada upah,upah maen PSP..
bijak2....ibu mmng bijak..
hihihihi {:4_500:}
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Post time 28-12-2011 12:05 AM | Show all posts
anak aku genap 5 tahun.. aku nak belikan tablet android china punya utk proses belajar secara santai dimana2..

baru2 ni anak aku 3 tahun.. baru sebulan pegi sekolah.. tadi dlm keta.. dok baca calender 2012..

rupanya dok mengira 1-10 dlm bahasa melayu ngan english.. sebelum ni berterabur.. kejap one.. two.. four.. ten.. eight.. skang ni lancar je mengira..

so aku sebagai bapak.. insyaallah aku belikan tablet utk anak aku la ni.. kalo games.. ringan2 je.. tp byk install education punya software..
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Post time 28-12-2011 12:11 AM | Show all posts
bab gajet.. so far dua2 anak laki aku tak sentuh tablet aku..

bila anak aku tanya "ayahanda.. apa benda yg ayahanda pegang tu"..
aku jawab "ni tablet.. utk buat kerja ayahanda" ..
pastu anak aku tanya balik.. " dlm tu ada angry bird tak ayahanda?? .. kalo ada boleh tak fal main?.."
aku jawab balik "kalo ada angry bird pun tak boleh.. sebab tablet ni ayahanda punya.. ayahanda guna utk buat kerja"..


smpai sekarang dah berbulan aku pakai tablet.. sekali pun dia tak pernah sentuh.. tp kalo dia mintak barang dia punya ka.. guling2 mintak.. ye lah kan.. dah barang dia..
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Post time 28-12-2011 12:18 AM | Show all posts
satu lagi aku nak pesan.. mungkin tak semua parent camni.. tp sesetengah still ada camni..

jawab soalan anak anda dengan penuh intelektual.. jangan jawab mcm acuh tak acuh je..

kalo boleh.. setiap jawapan anda tu diselitkan ngan ilmu..
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Post time 29-12-2011 06:56 PM | Show all posts
my en asben belikan i galaxy tab 10.1 tu, but anak2 yg men game..tp dgn pemantauan i la..so for me tak salah as long as kita kontrol n pantau apa yg anak2 buat.so far i tgk diorg ok..i tak bagi diorg leka dgn benda2 cenggini sgt.takut lupa plak dgn pelajaran.

kalau kat umah, mmg i pantau habis2an..n i set limit time for them to use it.biasapun diorg dok men angry bird tu aje...so tak risau sgtla...i mmg garang bab2 anak leka perabis masa ni..so kalau nak guna pun,tgu weekend sbb weekdays mmg diorg bz dgn sekolah n kelas mengajinya..mmg takde masa nak men,even jeling tab tu pun tak..

apapun,bg i..dgn pengawasan dan pemantauan dari ibu bapa,insyaAllah benda2 buruk boleh dielakkan...
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Post time 25-9-2012 04:11 PM | Show all posts
aku & husband baru je belikan tab utk anak aku yg 3 thn tu

Reason... supaya dia duduk diam2 dalam kete , means tak der wat perangai kejap nak duk depan, kejap nak duk belakang... dalam tab tu aku download mcm2 aplikasi yg sesuai dgn umur dia mcm drawing, coloring, bacaan quran... tak semestinya bila ada tab ni kanak2 mudah leka. Ibu bapa kena gak pandai kawal anak2 yg ralit ngan tab ni..
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Post time 21-12-2012 03:06 PM | Show all posts
AmMiNafeesa posted on 23-11-2011 01:40 PM
you all tak rimas ker cam...
you all gigih mencari duit nak beli iPhone la katakan..
but then..tak ...

Itu le..die rebut maknya punya. Saya mmg tak bagi sangat anak main tab ni sebab takut radiasi kuat rasanya. Tapi dah kita ada benda tu takkan tak bagi langsung. cuma limitkan aje lah. Permainan dalam tu kita kontrol. Download flashcard, storybook for android, game yg tak mengarut..eheh. Dilema sungguh. Penah rasa nak jual je benda alah tuuu..tapi suami belikan untuk bday takkan nak letgo plak ek

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Post time 21-12-2012 06:28 PM | Show all posts
melentuk buluh biarlah dari rebungnya.

Mac tak expose gadgets pada anak2 bla mereka kecik. Mac cuba expose on benda yg berkaitan ilmu sahaja. My kids are the only ones yg takda hp masa tahun 6. Coz i onlygive them one lepas dapat 5A. My kids are the only ones yg takda hp android compared to their friends, sbb mac hanya kasik after SPM.

If you  bagi awal2, although through supervision, still susah. If anak sorang bolehla control. Ini anak ramai. Kita kerja. I did not raise my kids dgn benda2 tu so syukur they tak pikir its important enough nak merengek mintak. Tapi if they mintak books, mmg secepat mungkin i buy for them walaupun bukucerita.

Dari kecik, show them apa yg penting. If you dok sogok gadgets, then jangan nak garu kepala bila anak2 tak minat nak belajar bila dah masuk sekolah. What interests them at the age of 5 and above, depends on what you expose to them masa they all kecik.

Mac punya style, i instill the good traits masa the first 7 years, sbb mac taknak pening kepala dgn they all masa sekolah. Kalau nak degil skit2 tu adatla kan.... nak main game after exam tu ok la..... syukur cara mac so far berjaya...
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Post time 21-12-2012 06:30 PM | Show all posts
oh btw, anak2 mac tau pakai computer since 3 tahun. Tapi mac hanya buka utk educational games aje... Bila dah besar ni baru dia tau byk lagi games internet hehe... tapi so far i can control....
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Post time 22-12-2012 11:44 PM | Show all posts
Sori, nak mcelah sikit. I think it's much better blikn anak iPad rather than PSP or game console. Bcoz PSP n etc tuh is juz simply a game which most of d time bnyk violence game i.e yg lelaki punya games lh tak bnyk yg bmain dgn IQ. I personally prefer iPad utk anak2 I main, not juz main2 but I instal game yg mnguji IQ, mcm spelling test, maths n etc. My 1st child tuh sgt bookworm n penuh ipad i dgn e-book dia suruh download.
So, don't make conclusion yg tablet nih utk game tak bfaedah smata2. It is how u decide to use n utilize it. If physical activity is d main concern kalo bnyk sgt d hadapkn gadget, honestly I don't worry dat much psal kat skolah my kids they r being taught more practical n physical activity (almost 80%) rather than juz theory. Nak suruh anak2 main mainan zaman kita haha they'l question apsal tak inovatif langsung
"Janganlah kamu mendidik anak-anakmu seperti cara kamu dididik dahulu kerana zaman kamu membesar tidak sama dgn zaman anak-anakmu membesar"
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