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aku ada je few kawan yg title J..
samada ko ada rupa/ bekerjaya mmg mudah sngkut jodoh.. depends pada diri sndiri mau @ tak..
ada yg cpt jek dapat pengganti cuma berhati2 la.. xkot yg dpt laki org / atau mmg ambik kesempatan kt atas diri ko saja..
jangan terlalu fikirkan apa org nk mngata ke ape.. sbb diri ko sndiri je tahu apa yg ko lalui.. |
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woi, rafizi pakar formula tu cuba tengok dia botak kat mana? hensem dan comei je aku tengok
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Stay single selagi boleh. Kenal je semua org. Carik laki yg fit but you need to be fit and attractive. Say no to duda ada anak. It's complicated. |
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Post time 19-3-2023 05:17 PM
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Edited by limesherbet at 20-3-2023 11:25 AM
Thx for the input u all
Wanna keep my options open...bila kita married pun ade men berminat, bila single balik pun ade. Wanna enjoy this moment kejap...feels refreshing bila ade freedom, xde siapa control, x perlu give atttention, jaga layan partner, dont hv to answer to a partner & sooo on. Kenal semua & take time in choosing the next partner ;) (if i x rujuk with him)
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Post time 19-3-2023 06:09 PM
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Edited by limesherbet at 19-3-2023 11:20 PM
green~tea replied at 11-2-2023 12:30 PM
Hati2 memilih.... takut kedapatan duda yg byk excess baggage
That...& emotional baggage
I noticed some men yg pernah married will have some degree of emotional baggage |
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setuju ...
just enjoy every moments u have, create memories .. and dont let pressure utk cari pasangan comes to you .. it will come naturally with the best person & time for you.
ramai je my frens yg J bertemu jodoh dgn better person .. bukan kata yg 1st tak baik, just the 2nd one better suited them. (ada jugak sebaliknya.. well, you never know what lies for you)
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ultra78 replied at 13-2-2023 12:02 PM
Ok. Good. Kita nak hidup lama dan tidak mahu merana sepanjang hidup.Kalau tak bahagia there is no ...
Meols ada kawan mcm nie....dia lelaki, dah lama tak sehaluan dgn his wife. Dia kata nak tunggu anak2 abis study dulu. Skrg yg kecik masih sekolah, yg lain dah masuk Uni. Dari segi kewangan, dia takde masalah sbb career dia mmg successful lah jugak. Anak2 study overseas dia self sponsor. His wife housewife sepenuh masa. Dari pemerhatian meols berbelas tahun, dia seorg suami yg bertanggungjwb.
I wish him the best, bila kita dah meningkat usia, dah nak retired, kita nak pasangan yg sehaluan, yg menyenangkan hati. Sbb bila retired, kebykkan masa kita akan bersama dgn pasangan kita. Masa kita bekerja, kita spend most of our time in office, working. Our mind focus kat tempat lain, Jd kalu ada kekurangan di rumah, kita bole ignore jer.
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Post time 25-3-2023 07:52 AM
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airisa replied at 20-3-2023 06:27 PM
setuju ...
just enjoy every moments u have, create memories .. and dont let pressure utk cari pas ...
Agreed. Someone said dpt hub x baik because i'm a bad woman. Petik "Lelaki baik utk wanita baik, lelaki jahat utk wanita jht."
Dulu attended class tafsir. Maksud "lelaki baik utk wanita baik, lelaki jht utk wnta jht" bukan mcm some people salah fhm tu. If not tak lah Asiah isteri pada Firaun jahat tu Allah bagi balasan syurga. Tu ujian nama nya. Moreover, the ex bukan lah semua x baik, ade juga kebaikan2 nya. |
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Post time 8-4-2023 02:37 PM
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green~tea replied at 16-2-2023 10:35 PM
Dalam tv aku pernah tengok.. orang botak tengah ni ada sakit jantung keturunan
baru tau botak tu illness related . thx for d sharing in other thread...a year xpnh bersama tu sbb arranged marriage izzit sis?
how did lawyer calculate?
my lawyer multiplied the amount, so that I can get the amount i nak. (based on his kemampuan, harta, single not janda when i married him, safrices i made throughout marriage)
he settled nfk iddah & whatever i need dia suruh inform. agreed to give the said amount mutaah etc... In the meantime, see if he'll counter d amount.(mula² dulu he refused giving, said kena rujuk if nak dia beri..so I had to pujuk & it worked)
Told lawyer I wanna do it respectfully, so no need to mention his aib in court. I feel he still deserves some degree of respect from me in settling this seeing d good things he did throughout d marriage & dia pun bekerjasama at this moment... ramadhan kot, manusia lembut hati. |
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limesherbet replied at 8-4-2023 02:37 PM
baru tau botak tu illness related. thx for d sharing in other thread...a year xpnh bersama ...
Yes, husband i dgn exwife dia arranged marriage... kawan2 batch dia yang kenenkan
I pun tak pasti la cemane lawyer calculate mutaah tu.. sbb dia ikut salary husband, tahun berkahwin etc... |
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midori888 replied at 25-3-2023 04:27 AM
Meols ada kawan mcm nie....dia lelaki, dah lama tak sehaluan dgn his wife. Dia kata nak tunggu ana ...
To me...the willingness to meet halfway when it seems impossible paling penting.
Betul u kate, I myself pun suka & nak ketenangan. imo, tak kisah lah muda or tua, we want calmness in marriage..bukan asyik drama bising² serabut. Both suami isteri gotta work together to achieve this, bukan dari sorang je. Effective commmunication crucial...many know this but not many apply it & are willing to improve their communication with partner.
I pernah dgr scholar mufti menk said, never bagi alasan children utk tak bercerai..if marriage tu toxic, exit. Menk himself got divorced & has happier 2nd marriage.  thx for the story shared. |
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What's the point to meet halfway kalu dah takde rasa cinta....pasangan kalu dah tau yg pasangan dia dah takde rasa cinta kat dia, patut lepaskan jer pasangan dia secara baik. Paksa org teruskan hubungan is a selfish act.... |
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I meant that's important to me in marriage besides love.. the willingness to compromise in a union. If both xnak compromise xnak beralah it's a recipe for disaster... in partnership not everything kene ikut cara, kehendak, kesukaan sendiri. |
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sis janda ke? sis kan laki pilot tu? |
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Tak jugak u..ada je yang membujang sebab tak jumpa jodoh. Mungkin jodoh belum lahir agaknya..
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edayildiz replied at 6-5-2023 01:30 AM
sis janda ke? sis kan laki pilot tu?
Terlepas baca cerita awal, cerai knp kah? |
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purplelilac replied at 4-7-2023 04:20 PM
Terlepas baca cerita awal, cerai knp kah?
i pun xtau
tp yg i tau tt ni laki dia pilot..kalau i xslh org la |
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edayildiz replied at 4-7-2023 06:25 PM
i pun xtau
tp yg i tau tt ni laki dia pilot..kalau i xslh org la
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I wish u the best TT
Me myself pun tengah nak lepaskan diri but i'm too afraid tinggal sorang. Now i understand bila org kata asal berlaki tu hihi |
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