1Khadijah bint KhuwaylidMarriedJuly 595.She was a wealthymerchant from Mecca who employed the 24-year-old Muhammad and then proposedmarriage. She was the mother of six of his children and a key character inthe earliest development of Islam. She was Muhammad's only wife as long asshe lived. She died in April 620.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
2Sawda bint Zam'aMarried, though withlimited rights.May 620.She was a tanner whohad been an early convert to Islam. Muhammad married her at a time when hewas unpopular and bankrupt. He considered divorcing her when, as the oldestand plainest of his wives (described as "fat and very slow"), sheno longer attracted him, but she persuaded him to keep her in the house inexchange for never sleeping with her again (she gave up her turn to Aisha).· Bukhari· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
3Aisha bint Abi BakrMarriedContracted May 620 butfirst consummated in April or May 623.She was the daughterof Muhammad's best friend and head evangelist Abu Bakr. Muhammad selected thesix-year-old Aisha in preference to her teenaged sister, and she remained hisfavourite wife. She contributed a major body of information to Islamic lawand history. The paedophilic aspect of this relationship hasinstitutionalised such marriages within Islam.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
4Hafsa bint UmarMarriedJanuary or February625.She was the daughterof Muhammad's wealthy friend Umar. Hafsa was the custodian of theautograph-text of the Qur'an, which was actually somewhat different from thestandard Qur'an of today.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
5Zaynab bint KhuzaymaMarriedFebruary or March 625.She was a middle-classwidow known as "Mother of the Poor" because of her commitment tocharity work. She died in October 625.· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
6Hind (Umm Salama) bintAbi UmayyaMarriedApril 626.An attractive widowwith four young children, Hind had been rejected by her aristocratic familyin Mecca because they were so hostile to Islam. Her tact and practical wisdomsometimes mitigated Muhammad's cruelties. She was a notable teacher ofIslamic law and a partisan of Ali.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
7Zaynab bint JahshMarriedMarch 627.An early convert toIslam, Zaynab was the wife of Muhammad's adopted son Zayd ibn Harithah. Shewas also the Prophet's biological cousin. When Muhammad became infatuatedwith Zaynab, Zayd was pressured into a divorce. To justify marrying her,Muhammad announced new revelations that (1) an adopted son did not count as areal son, so Zaynab was not his daughter-in-law, and (2) as a prophet, he wasallowed more than the standard four wives. Zaynab excelled at leather-crafts.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
8Rayhana bint Zayd ibnAmrSexual slaveryMay 627.Her first husband wasone of the 600-900 Qurayza men whom Muhammad beheaded in April 627. Heenslaved all the women and selected Rayhana for himself because she was themost beautiful. When she refused to marry him, he kept her as a concubineinstead. She died shortly before Muhammad in 632.· IbnIshaq· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
9Juwayriyah bintAl-HarithMarriedJanuary 628.The daughter of anArab chief, she was taken prisoner when Muhammad attacked her tribe. Muhammaddid not make a habit of marrying his war-captives, but Aisha claimed thatJuwayriyah was so beautiful that men always fell in love with her at firstsight.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
10Ramlah (Umm Habiba)bint Abi SufyanMarriedJuly 628 (following aproxy wedding earlier in the year)She was a daughter ofAbu Sufyan, the Meccan chief who led the resistance against Muhammad, but shehad been a teenaged convert to Islam. This marriage offset some of Muhammad'spolitical humiliation in the Treaty of Hudaybiya by demonstrating that hecould command the loyalty of his adversary's own daughter. Ramlah was devotedto Muhammad and quick to pick quarrels with people who were not.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
11Safiyah bintHuyayyMarriedJuly 628.She was the beautifuldaughter of a Jewish chief, Huyayy ibn Akhtab. Muhammad married her on theday he defeated the last Jewish tribe in Arabia, only hours after he hadsupervised the slaying of Kinana her second husband. His earlier victims hadincluded her father, brother, first husband, three uncles and severalcousins. This marriage was of no benefit to Safiyah's defeated tribe, whowere banished from Arabia a few years later; its real political significancewas that Safiyah's presence in Muhammad's household was an open demonstrationthat he had defeated the Jews.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
12Maymunah bintAl-HarithMarriedFebruary 629.She was a middle-classwidow from Mecca who proposed marriage to Muhammad. A placid woman who kept avery tidy house, Maymunah was completely obsessed with rules and rituals.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
13Mariyah bint Shamoon al-QuptiyaSexual slaveryc. June 629.She was one of severalslaves whom the Governor of Egypt sent as a present to Muhammad. He kept heras a concubine despite the objections of his official wives, who feared herbeauty. Mariyah bore Muhammad a son, Ibrahim.· IbnIshaq· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
14Mulayka bint KaabDivorcedJanuary 630.Her family resistedthe Muslim invasion of Mecca. Needing to appease the conqueror, they gave himthe beautiful Mulayka as a bride. When she realised that Muhammad's army hadkilled her father, she demanded a divorce, which he granted her. She died afew weeks later.· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
15Fatima al-Aliya bintZabyan al-DahhakDivorcedFebruary or March 630.She was the daughterof a minor chief who had converted to Islam. Muhammad divorced her after onlya few weeks "because she peeked at men in the mosque courtyard."Fatima had to work for the rest of her life as a dung-collector, and sheoutlived all Muhammad's widows.· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
16Asma bint Al-NumanDivorcedJune or July 630.She was a princessfrom Yemen whose family hoped the marriage alliance would ward off a militaryinvasion from Medina. But Muhammad divorced her before consummation afterAisha tricked her into reciting the divorce formula. Asma later married abrother of Umm Salama.· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
17Al-JariyaSexual slaveryAfter 627.She was a domesticslave belonging to Zaynab bint Jahsh, who made Muhammad a present of her. Sheseems to have been an "unofficial" concubine who did not have aregular turn on his roster.· Ibnal-Qayyim
18Amra bint YazidDivorcedc. 631.She was a Bedouin ofno political importance. Muhammad divorced her before consummation when hesaw she had symptoms of leprosy.· IbnIshaq· IbnHisham· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
19Tukana al-QuraziyaSexual slaveryUnknown, but probablyin the last months of Muhammad's life.She was a member ofthe defeated Qurayza tribe whom Muhammad selected as one of his personalslaves. She appears to have been another "unofficial" concubinewithout a regular turn on the roster. After Muhammad's death, she marriedAbbas.· Majlisi· Ibnal-Qayyim.
2nd Part - Muhammad's Engagement and Broken Marriage Contracts.
BTW - Any Muslims who said that Contract Marriages is not part of Islam, please take notice your Prophet had many such contracts (even with women he had never met) during his life time.
Ghaziya (Umm Sharik)bint JabirEarly 627.She was a poor widowwith dependent children. She sent Muhammad a proposal of marriage, and heagreed to the contract. However, when he met her in person, he saw that,although attractive, she was "old", and he divorced herimmediately. She never remarried.
Khawla bint HudhaylProbably mid- or late-627.She was a princessfrom the powerful Christian Taghlib tribe in northern Arabia. Her unclearranged the marriage, which was expected to be politically advantageous onboth sides. Muhammad signed the contract, but Khawla died on her journey toMedina, before they met in person.
Sharaf bint KhalifaProbably mid- orlate-627.She was an aunt ofKhawla bint Hudhayl (above). After Khawla's death, the family tried tosubstitute Sharaf. In one tradition, Sharaf also died before consummation. Inanother tradition, Muhammad changed his mind and broke off the contract.
Layla bint al-KhutaymAfter 627.One of the firstconverts in Medina, Layla asked Muhammad to marry her so that her clan, theZafar, would be the most closely allied to the Prophet. He agreed. However,Layla's family warned her that she was too "jealous andwhip-tongued" to adapt well to polygamy, which would cause politicalproblems for the whole community. Under this pressure, Layla broke off theengagement.
Umm Habib bintAl-AbbasAfter March 630.She was Muhammad'scousin. He saw her as a baby crawling around and remarked, "If I amalive when she grows up, I will marry her." He changed his mind when hefound out that her father had been his foster-brother and died soonafterwards.
Sana al-Nashat bintRifaa (Asma) ibn As-Saltc. April 630.She was the daughterof a Muslim warrior who hoped to advance his career by becoming Muhammad'sfather-in-law. Muhammad signed the contract, but Sana died before themarriage could be consummated.
Umra bint Rifaac. May 630.She was the sister ofSana (above). After Sana died, their father tried to interest Muhammad inUmra. At first he agreed, but he later changed his mind, ostensibly becauseRifaa boasted that Umra "has never known a day's illness in herlife."
Bint Jundub ibn Damraof Janda’aUnknown.Nothing is known aboutthis woman except that Muhammad contracted marriage with her but divorced herbefore consummation.
Jamra bint Al-Harithc. 631She proposed marriageto Muhammad, and he accepted. Her father informed him that she suffered froma serious disease, whereupon Muhammad broke off the engagement. According tothe Muslim chroniclers, her father arrived home only to find that she reallyhad been afflicted with leprosy.
Al-Shanba’ bint AmrJanuary 632.She was from a Bedouintribe who appeared friendly to Muhammad but who had also been friends ofthe Qurayza tribe.Al-Shanba’ insulted Muhammad on the first day by implying that he was not atrue prophet, and he divorced her immediately.
Qutayla (Habla) bintQaysMay 632.She was a cousin ofAsma bint Al-Numan, and the Yemenites sent her to Muhammad as a substitutebride. He signed the marriage contract but he died before Qutayla arrived inMedina. As soon as she heard that he was dead, she apostated from Islam. Soonafterwards she married an Arab chief who was a leader in the Apostasy Wars.
Edited by Sephiroth at 6-5-2016 01:47 PM
The weddings which Muhammad claimed had happened in Heaven (when he was still alive) :
Mary, mother of JesusThe Afterlife.Muhammad said thatAllah had wedded him in Heaven to the Virgin Mary, who was one of the fourperfect women. The Qur'an refers several times to Mary, praising her chastityand affirming the virgin birth of Jesus. Muhammad said she lived in abeautiful jewelled palace in Paradise next to Khadijah's.· Qur'an· Bukhari· Muslim· Majlisi
Queen Asiya of EgyptThe Afterlife.Muhammad said thatAllah had wedded him in Heaven to Queen Asiya, who was one of the fourperfect women. The Qur'an tells how Asiya rescued the infant Moses from theevil Pharaoh, and how Pharaoh later tortured his wife to death for hermonotheism. Muhammad said that Asiya's palace in Heaven was on the other sideof Khadijah's.· Qur'an· Muslim· IbnKathir· Majlisi
Kulthum bint AmramThe Afterlife.Muhammad originallybelieved that Maryam the sister of Moses and Maryam the mother of Jesus wereone and the same. When he realised his mistake, he apparently over-correctedby deciding that Moses' sister was not even named Maryam. He renamed herKulthum ("Chubby Cheeks") and said that Allah had wedded her to himin Heaven. He did not say that she was a perfect woman or that she lived nextto Khadijah.· Qur'an· Muslim· Majlisi
Yes, folks, according to Al Hadith, Siti Khadijah claimed that Muhammad claimed that he was wedded to - not one ancient female person from the Bible but THREE - the Queen of the Pharoah who saved Moses, Jesus's Mother (Virgin Mary) and Moses's sister (whom he called Chubby Cheeks - Don't ask me which cheeks he was referring too, OK. {:1_567:} ).
I was pretty surprised with this so I have went check online whether this was true or not, and found the following information :-
The claim that Allah is going to marry Muhammad to Virgin Mary in Heaven does not occur in the Qur'an, but is implied through a parallelism in Surah 66. Now let's look at the hadiths:
"The Messenger of God ... said, ‘God MARRIED ME IN PARADISE TO MARY THE DAUGHTER OF 'IMRAN and to the wife of Pharaoh and the sister of Moses.’ (Tabarani)" (Ibn Kathir, Qisas al-Anbiya , p. 381- as cited in Aliah Schleifer's Mary The Blessed Virgin of Islam , p. 64)
... According to the Cambridge Tafsir, the word thayyebat (widows or divorcees) refers to Pharaoh's wife Asiya, and the word virgins (abkar) refers to Jesus' mother Mary, both of whom are waiting to be married to the Prophet Mohammad in heaven. (Dashti, 23 Years: A Study of the Prophetic Career of Mohammad , p. 138)
When Khadijah expressed surprise at the news that Muhammad already had deceased wives, he explained that Allah had wedded him in Paradise to Queen Asiya, to “Kulthum the sister of Moses” and to the Virgin Mary. The theme of having four wives appears to have been on his mind even in his last moments with Khadijah. She responded with the conventional congratulation to a newlywed: “May the union be blessed.” ( Majlisi, Hayat al-Qulub 2:26)
An Islamic website even claims with the help of a tafsir that Mary remained virgin forever so that she could be Muhammad's wife in Paradise:
“ was like a great fortress, impenetrable to the enemy.And she continued with her virginity until her death, and her marriage will take place in Heaven, as a reward to her, to the Best of Allah’s Servants, Muhammad (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him), the Seal of the Prophets and the Imam of the Messengers.”
http://seekersguidance.org/ans-b ... -isa-being-married/
Now I think about it, didn't the Bible said that Virgin Mary had married a man named Joshue and that they had a son named Aaron (or was it James, can't remember). Whatever happened to Virgin Mary's husband according to Muhammad, I wonder? Not over yet. Last piece of information - marriages and contracts which Muhammad rejected :-
Fakhita (Umm Hani)bint Abi Talibbefore 595;January 630;c. 631Muhammad proposed tohis cousin Fakhita, but her father married her off to a wealthy Makhzumitepoet.Nearly forty years later, after Muhammad conquered Mecca,Fakhita's husband fled rather than convert to Islam, causing an automaticdivorce. Muhammad proposed to Fakhita again, but she refused, saying shecould not be equally fair to a new husband and her young children.Later still, Fakhita came to Muhammad, saying her children hadgrown up and she was finally ready to marry him; but he said she was toolate.· IbnIshaq· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
“As Many Wives as YouWant”c.618-619.The chiefs of Meccaoffered Muhammad "as many wives as you want in marriage," togetherwith wealth, political power and the services of a competent exorcist, ifonly he would stop insulting their gods. Muhammad refused this offer, whichwas made while Khadijah was still alive.· Al-Tabari
Habiba bint Sahlc. 623.Habiba was a prominentmember of the Najjar clan in Medina. When the chief died with no obviousheir, Muhammad proposed to Habiba. His companions warned him that the womenof Medina were not used to polygamy and that the men were very jealous forthe happiness of their daughters; if this marriage turned out badly, keycitizens might withdraw their support from Islam. Muhammad retracted hisproposal, but the Najjar clan made him their chief anyway.· IbnIshaq· IbnSa'd· AbuDawud· Muwatta
Al-AnsariyaAfter 625.This unnamed womanproposed to Muhammad in Hafsa's presence. Hafsa decried the shame of a womanwho would throw herself at a man, but Muhammad retorted, "She is betterthan you because she wanted me while you only find fault." He refusedthe proposal, but promised the woman a reward in Paradise for asking.In fact several ansar women are said to haveproposed to Muhammad; while this example is anonymous, it clearly refers to awoman who is distinct from Layla bint Khutaym.· Majlisi
Khawla bint HakimAfter 627.This is the sameKhawla bint Hakim who arranged Muhammad's marriages to Aisha and Sawda. Herfirst husband was Hafsa's uncle, and their elder son fought at Badr. Afterbeing widowed, Khawla asked Muhammad to marry her, but he refused withoutgiving a reason. However, he found her a new husband the same day.· IbnIshaq· Bukhari· IbnSa'd· IbnKathir
Dubaa bint AmirAfter 627.Dubaa was a wealthynoblewoman to whom Muhammad sent a marriage proposal when he heard about herbeautiful long hair that filled a whole room when she sat down. But by thetime she accepted him, he had been advised that she was “elderly” (hergrown-up son had been born from her third marriage) so he retracted hisproposal before he had even met her.· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
Izza bint Abi SufyanAfter July 628.She was the sister ofMuhammad’s wife Ramlah. Ramlah proposed Izza as a bride, "since, as Icannot be your only wife, I would like to share my good fortune with mysister." But Muhammad said he could not marry two sisters concurrently.· Muslim
Durrah bint Abi SalamaAfter July 628.She was the daughterof Muhammad's wife Hind. Another wife, Ramlah, noticed that Muhammad admiredDurrah and asked if he intended to marry her. He replied that he could notmarry his stepdaughter; and besides, her father had been his foster-brother.On the day Muhammad died, Durrah was only six years old.· Muslim
Umama bint HamzaAfter March 630.She was Muhammad'scousin and said to be the prettiest girl in the family. Ali proposed her as abride while she was still a child, but Muhammad said that he could not marryher because her father had been his foster-brother. She later married hisstepson, Salama ibn Abi Salama.· IbnSa'd
Safiyah bint BashshamaSeptember 630.She was a war-captivefrom Mesopotamia. Muhammad asked her to marry him, but when she said shewanted to return to her husband, he allowed her family to ransom her. It issaid that her family cursed her for placing her personal happiness above thepolitical needs of the tribe.· Al-Tabari· IbnSa'd
Edited by Sephiroth at 11-5-2016 11:02 AM
The Influence of Siti Khadijah on Islam
Some interesting facts can be derived from examining Muhammad's marital life.
For example, from what we can see, it is obvious that Siti Khadijah had a controlling effect on Muhammad during his earlier life as a married man. He was around 24 (or 25 according to some source) and she was twenty years older than he was. From this example, we can say that Muhammad was inexperience man when comes to marriage and life as a family man, when compared to her who already a widow at the time of marriage and has an accomplished business among Quraisy men (a feat which was not easy for a woman even in those days).
This is also indicated that perhaps the idea of him being a prophet was not his own. She could likely to reject believing in the same idols as Quraisy around her did, and from historical data, we knew that when Muhammad were beseiged by his strange experience, it was Siti Khadijah who brought him to see a Jewish person who dwell in mysticism to explain his experience and he had (somehow) pointed out that Muhammad was a prophet. Perhaps the idea of him being a prophet was nothing more than a suggestion planted into Muhammad's mind by these people. After all, NO ONE in the Taurat or the Bible had similar experience like Muhammad (shaking in fear) and labelled as a prophet.
It is also possible that early form of Islam (the peaceful kind) was due to Siti Khadijah's influence over Muhammad. She was an accomplish businesswoman with many connections and therefore, she could (along with Muhammad's grandfather - Mutalib) was able to protect Muhammad when he started to spread Islam and brought the dislike of Quraisy society over his rejection of Idol worshipping.
However, it is possible that they had a limited level of influence and therefore, if Muhammad were to preach violence, it is possible that they could not be able to protect him anymore. This was true later in life when Siti Khadijah had died and Muhammad found himself surrounded by hostile Quraisy who could have killed him unless he moved to Madinah. So if this is to be true, then the so-called Peaceful Islamic teaching which Muslims worldwide trying to sell to non-Muslims were not Muhammad's own teaching but due to influence of Siti Khadijah. Muhammad's true Islamic teaching began in Madinah. I dont see any Islam word on this board title. So this thread have to move to the suitable board...
Sorry.. Roger Cik Boss Clearly such like a sunshine, it's Syiah database about prophet Muhammad historical marrige craft by Jew.
100% can be reject without prejudice.
So sorry Sephirot, your information base on mind thinking only. Sephiroth replied at 29-4-2016 02:35 PM
Third reasons - Is Islam relevant today?
Answer :- HELL NO.
Are you blind? Sephiroth replied at 30-4-2016 05:02 PM
Jaga kepala hotak kamu. Kamu nak orang2 bukan Islam diam diri dan tidak menpersoalkan ciri2 agama...
Kamu masih lagi dibuai mimpi. Ilmu "bayang" tidaklah sama dgn ilmu "hakikat" walaupun kelihatan sama, akan tetapi berbeza.
Jika mahu mengetahui kebenaran, maka lihatlah apa yg "Allah dan Rasul" katakan dan bukan pula apa yg manusia katakan.
Perception doesn't mean perfection. It's all about something that "someone" that want you to see or "someone" that give choice for you to see.
There is diff. between it. apakah agama TT bukan yg palsu jua? ;P
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