midori888 replied at 25-5-2023 11:05 AM
oh u jaga nephew ke? why?
my fren tu jaga anak2 dia jer....
Sbb kitorang sama2 jaga budak.. i, brother, husband, my exhusband all kerja hybrid oil n gas (mix work from home and work in office) and same time urus bisnes2....kerja same towers,ada rumah di kl/selangor and bisnes & rumah pun sekampung...
So we take turns looking after our kids... ada helpers, kitorang bayar upah utk helpers, cikgu mengaji & cikgu tuition green~tea replied at 25-5-2023 11:16 AM
Sbb kitorang sama2 jaga budak.. i, brother, husband, my exhusband all kerja hybrid oil n gas (mix...
owh...the kids all staying with you or they will take turn to stay in other houses as well?
midori888 replied at 25-5-2023 11:19 AM
owh...the kids all staying with you or they will take turn to stay in other houses as well?
Take turns.. so kalo i outstation or follow husband, mmg wajar kawtim dgn exhusband & his wife utk jaga anak, to ensure persekolahan tak ponteng or cicir...
semua budak2 tu : anak i, nephews, anak tiri my ex, semua satu sekolah... kalo preschool / daycare pun seberang lorong sekolah aje..
Kalo cuti skolah, 4 minggu cuti, so 2 minggu anak akan dengan i... hari skolah pun sama... rumah ex i seberang sekolah, rumah my mom (adik i duduk) the other side of sekolah, walking distance aje..so kena kawtim laa both families supaya kita boleh arrange our schedule... kalo ex i tak available, i pun busy, so i akan minta my in laws jagakan anak i....
Support system...
Co-parenting ni kena tolerate.. susah awal2 tu but then soooooo easy utk kita manage our schedule..
mcm jarang sangat kan orang buat camni... but it really works for us Edited by green~tea at 25-5-2023 11:40 AM
Ni upcoming cuti skolah 9 hari... anak i dah susun glamping activities.... 4 kali glamping horkehhhhhhh
I prefer glamping sbb nak tido dlm tent, but having the luxury of aircond tent & proper toilet /shower.... rm500 per night minimum...usually every cuti skolah asik ulang alik legoland.... this time around budak2 tu nak outdoors
4 glamping tu dah bayor /booked:
1 kat terengganu together with my nephews
2 kat janda baik with husband & reunion unimate i
1 kat area selangor with keluarga ex i
Honestly i enjoyed having budak2 yg dah besar and more quality time together.... i dah tak kuasa nak menetek baby green~tea replied at 25-5-2023 11:26 AM
Take turns.. so kalo i outstation or follow husband, mmg wajar kawtim dgn exhusband & his wife utk ...
oic...kira 3 family jaga anak2 sama2 lah yer....
midori888 replied at 25-5-2023 11:52 AM
oic...kira 3 family jaga anak2 sama2 lah yer....
Ha ah.. actually both sides, co parenting..
zaman skang ni nak kena ada multiple income laa utk masa depan & retirement & keterjaminan masa depan anak2.. nak harap 1 salary sahaja susah green~tea replied at 25-5-2023 12:03 PM
Ha ah.. actually both sides, co parenting..
zaman skang ni nak kena ada multiple income laa utk...
all the best to you and family....
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