mizzerinz replied at 1-8-2021 11:08 PM
Bertaubat lahh..lupakan keseronokan dunia ni. Seronok sekejap je. Kalau aku jadi wife dia mmg bye by ...
memang nak bertaubat tu, tapi kena hadap bini dia dulu la, nak bagi bini dia reda ;P
papazola90 replied at 1-8-2021 10:54 PM
tapikan benda ni bagi luka dalam, your husband cheat with your bestie kot, tak tercapai akal, kala ...
tapi kan sesuatu bermula dari satu event.....bagi wa la...normally if something wrong with the wife, wa as usban will approach the next person yg closest to the wife...pada awalnya...nak memahami nape wife perangai mcm ni...nape wife perangai macam tu....as usban rasa bestie mesti tau lebih pasal the wife....asalnya nawaitu mcm dah betul....unfortunately along the way....derailed la pulak.....:loveliness:
papazola90 replied at 1-8-2021 11:08 PM
yup sis, but my friend ni both are in profesional field, but not in law field. hehehehhe, wife dia ...
Yeap, usually strong will blah.. kecuali she cinta mati with the husb or consider the children..
Apa2pn, sy doakan baik2 utk mereka.. hrp lelaki tu klo insaf, insafla btl2.. =)
papazola90 replied at 1-8-2021 10:55 PM
yup sis, swingger I cannot brain, huhuhuhu, entahlah sanggup sahre wife, uish.
Pasal dah jadi depan mata sampai aku cakap dgn suami aku tak nak tgk muka dorg ni lagi.
Kwn ko tu lelaki, aku tak rasa kwn ko tu boleh terima balik isteri dia. Cuma sblm tu aku rasa jumpa la ustaz yg korg percaya, tgk2 bini dia. Mana tau kena penangan sihir/ilmu jahat ke apa. Zmn skrg ni, makin undur ke belakang...hati2 la
tapi sebelum kita menghukum....as a wife kena muhasabah diri dulu.......wa rasa as a suami yg mahu buat yg terbaik....suami akan approach the best fren of the wife...coz pada pendapat suami mesti la bestie ni tau lebih lagi about wife dia....bestie kannn....
but itu la....manusia being manusia....tak lari dari digoda syaitonnirrojim....asalnya nawaitu baik....nak borak2 pasal wife ngan bestie....one thing lead to another....tetiba rasa mcam lagi senang berbual ngan bestie wife ni....the chemistry mcm ngam je....
hencewhy, wife2 don't take advantage of the situation...mentang2 usban sayang....merajok tak ingat dunia...merajok berhari2....cakap tak nak...senyum tak nak....bagi nafkah yg suami minta tak nak.....so bila wife tak bercakap...or wife mcm tak nak berkomunikasi....sang suami akan jadi gelabah...contact bestie on how to pujuk the wife...
I lagi curious dah kenapa bukak thread utk benda takde kaitan ngan u.
:lol:
becir replied at 2-8-2021 08:43 AM
I lagi curious dah kenapa bukak thread utk benda takde kaitan ngan u.
sebab member minta nasihat, manalah I tahu nak nasihat apa, hahahahahhaa, memang nak marah, tapi orang minta advise.
cantthinkofany1 replied at 1-8-2021 11:09 PM
tapi kan sesuatu bermula dari satu event.....bagi wa la...normally if something wrong with the wif ...
entahlah, sebab tak kenal sangat ngan wife dia punya member, maybe la mcm tu kot flow dia.
kalkulatorpink replied at 1-8-2021 11:13 PM
Yeap, usually strong will blah.. kecuali she cinta mati with the husb or consider the children..
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amin, moga ada sinar jalan untuk mereka, iols yang laki pun buntu nak nasihat apa. haahhahahaa
CardiGans85 replied at 1-8-2021 11:14 PM
Pasal dah jadi depan mata sampai aku cakap dgn suami aku tak nak tgk muka dorg ni lagi.
Kwn ko...
itulah nak tengok juga, sebab ada member pun pernah kena juga ilmu mak esah ni.
cantthinkofany1 replied at 2-8-2021 07:29 AM
tapi sebelum kita menghukum....as a wife kena muhasabah diri dulu.......wa rasa as a suami yg mahu b ...
hurmmm. itulah sebab iols tak tahu sanagt fasal rumah tangga member ni coz laki jarang talk fasal benda ni
klu aku sbg wife cerai jek
mls nak pikir lama2 dah
papazola90 replied at 2-8-2021 09:13 AM
hurmmm. itulah sebab iols tak tahu sanagt fasal rumah tangga member ni coz laki jarang talk fasal...
tapiiii.....do you feel the wife bagi peluang untuk sang suami menerangkan why and how it all started....atau wife terus tutup telinga and mata and hati and semua panca indera untuk mendengar...
ada orang kata.....in this desperate and critial moment, the best is....mendengar dan melihat bukan dengan telinga atau mata fizikal tapi dengan all the six sense....listen with your heart, access with your brain, make decision with intellectuality.....chewahhhh...cakap mmg la senang....orang yg lalui yg tahu betapa pedihnya....
untuk the wife...ini cadangan wa....if hati still bergetar bila lihat muka suami or dada berdegup kencang penuh kerinduan bila suami berbicara....then its best to mencari ketenangan ...take time out...minta izin dr suami utk menyendiri with your own space.....take a note book....write down all your feelings...use as much pages as you want...thrash it all out...calm yourself.....access whether you are ready to face the usban to make the final decision.....kerana at the end of the day, its you who is going to live in the situation you choose....not your friend...not your family members....not the people around u....talk to Allah.....InSyaa Allah, Dia sentiasa ada untuk kamu.....
papazola90 replied at 2-8-2021 09:13 AM
hurmmm. itulah sebab iols tak tahu sanagt fasal rumah tangga member ni coz laki jarang talk fasal...
tapiiii.....do you feel the wife bagi peluang untuk sang suami menerangkan why and how it all started....atau wife terus tutup telinga and mata and hati and semua panca indera untuk mendengar...
ada orang kata.....in this desperate and critial moment, the best is....mendengar dan melihat bukan dengan telinga atau mata fizikal tapi dengan all the six sense....listen with your heart, access with your brain, make decision with intellectuality.....chewahhhh...cakap mmg la senang....orang yg lalui yg tahu betapa pedihnya....
untuk the wife...ini cadangan wa....if hati still bergetar bila lihat muka suami or dada berdegup kencang penuh kerinduan bila suami berbicara....then its best to mencari ketenangan ...take time out...minta izin dr suami utk menyendiri with your own space.....take a note book....write down all your feelings...use as much pages as you want...thrash it all out...calm yourself.....access whether you are ready to face the usban to make the final decision.....kerana at the end of the day, its you who is going to live in the situation you choose....not your friend...not your family members....not the people around u....talk to Allah.....InSyaa Allah, Dia sentiasa ada untuk kamu.....
fifie_olin replied at 2-8-2021 09:23 AM
klu aku sbg wife cerai jek
mls nak pikir lama2 dah
wayyy to go gurl.....:loveliness:
cantthinkofany1 replied at 2-8-2021 09:28 AM
tapiiii.....do you feel the wife bagi peluang untuk sang suami menerangkan why and how it all star ...
mohon untuk difoward message ni kepada wife beliau. buat masa ni memang wife dia tu tak nak dengar la kot, sebab parah sangat perbuatan kawan iols tu.
papazola90 replied at 2-8-2021 09:34 AM
mohon untuk difoward message ni kepada wife beliau. buat masa ni memang wife dia tu tak nak dengar ...
onzzz je sistur....wa okay....
cantthinkofany1 replied at 2-8-2021 09:36 AM
onzzz je sistur....wa okay....
thanks sis, harap wife dia buat keputusan bijak.
fifie_olin replied at 2-8-2021 09:23 AM
klu aku sbg wife cerai jek
mls nak pikir lama2 dah
luka tu terlampau parah, you cheated with my bestie, perghhh
papazola90 replied at 2-8-2021 09:40 AM
thanks sis, harap wife dia buat keputusan bijak.
aamiinnn.....and people yg around the wife, when she has made her decision please avoid making any judgement towards her....it's her decision as it's her life.....