KARMA ialah Pantai (Beach)!!
Hi uolzz... i bukak thread about karma ni bukan nak discuss or ulas pasal topik keagamaan ya, this is just an analogy of "what u giveu get back" gitteewwww... di thread ini korang dipersilakanlah nak nyampuks, nak meroyan, nak bg pendapat, nak mengulas, nak share experience sharing is caring.... go ahead, the floor is yoursss....If someone, or anyone have wronged u.... and kita tak balas, kita just invisible or lenyap je dari hidup dia... tup2 selang beberapa tahun, or bulan or even days, org tu diuji pulak dengan kesusahan.... what would you do?
1. Tergedik2 offer help? Kekdahnya, balas madu atas racun diberi... konon we're saint, husnuzon or i'm "holier than thou" ke....
2. Grabs popcorn while watching the whole chronologies happening one by one.. just jadi spectators...
3. CASH kan diorang... almost sama mcm nombor 2, but one step keji.. while being the spectator, uolz kutuk2 belakang or whatever
4. Delete terus dari our life existence... blocked all soc media, langsung tak amek pot... just biarkan luka di hati kita hasil perbuatan mereka tu sembuh sendiri over time....
I would usually do number 4.. tp kalo ada yg jahat sgt... ada yg i stalk dekat fb ke apa using fake ID or whatever (grabs popcorn mode).. nnti dalam posting2 seterus nya i would share some of my experiences...
iols spectator but I will tell the story Makan pop corn sambil gelak2. Iols pusing2 antara 1, 2, 3 dan 4. Hati iols lembut. Last2 akan pusing balik ke nombor 1 jua. Itu utk org2 yg iols kenal sgt la. The first few months and up to 1 year, I choose option no. 2.. but now after 4 years, no. 4 is the best option for me.. haha.. I realize time will heal everything. I dah maafkan org tu, tp bila I practice no 4. tu, it's worth it, for me! :) Tinot7 replied at 22-5-2020 09:25 AM
Iols pusing2 antara 1, 2, 3 dan 4. Hati iols lembut. Last2 akan pusing balik ke nombor 1 jua. Itu ut ...
Lebih kurang what i would do... yang no 1 tu usually towards my extended family members la.... ade je pelik2... tp tu la dah family kan, kenal sejak kecik2.... rasa simpati tu ade green~tea replied at 22-5-2020 10:20 AM
Lebih kurang what i would do... yang no 1 tu usually towards my extended family members la.... ade ...
Tu yg tak sampai hati I practice no 4 je dlm hidup I. I jenis x suka gaduh2. Yg suka nak provoke2 org tu, jgn buang masa la dgn I. Sila pergi jauh.
if org tu kejam sgt..i jadi no 3...dlm hati nk ckp..adan uke kau...hahaha....
2 or 3..aku mmg jahat Dulu2 2, 3. Now 4. Zen life no 3 aku salu balas kat laki aku sbb dia jenis degil susah nk dgr ckp
no 4 aku practice utk org luar yg xde hubungan darah dgn aku MadameOnion replied at 22-5-2020 11:32 AM
2 or 3..aku mmg jahat
Kalo kejam sgt, weols pun teringin nak cash kan.... tp kdg2 tu la, duk terpikir, hidup ni roda, kdg ataskadg kat bawah... Edited by green~tea at 23-5-2020 06:14 AM
Back in 2017 masa iols divorce, mmg moment i jatuh tergolek lah.. fighting kat court syariah selama 3 tahun baru settle semua kes, custody anak, harta sepencarian etc 36k i abes byr lawyer, tu pun i appoint lawyer biasa je... my ex ramai siblings (12 beradik!!), brothers dia gigih carikan celebrity lawyer, of course costs berlipat kali ganda kan sbb status lawyer tu hebat2 hado2....
I'm alone in KL, only friends surrounding and bg support... mmg my ex and family dia made my life miserable la..My salary masa tu only 16K, rendah laa compared ngn diorang dah cecah 20K... commitment rumah and kereta i bayar selama ni, so berapa je belen nak bayar groceries and alll.... back in 2016-2017 masa tu position i middle management sajork, promoted in 2012 from process engineer level... but now my salary has doubled (rm3X k) dah laa after i was being appointed as top management in this company... alhamdulillah, i anggap sume ni rezeki anak i, and my current husband (i married last year)... weols ni bukan kaya pun, makan gaji kan, kalo businessman tu lain citer lah..
Fast forward... after 2 years++ kes settle, and alhamdulillah, i dpt pembelaan yg adil through settlement agreement last year 2019.... and just nice lepas settle semua kes and dah tukar hakmilik rumah i kat dia (dia buat loan rm1 mil beli rumah i)... tup2 datang covid...
Most of guys in family ex i keje oil and gas... My ex, and ex BILs i 2 orang now dah kena potong gaji (20% potong), and all of them being offered VSS.... diorang ni sejenis high commitment disebabkan lifestyle... coz byk kereta, continental cars, vellfire bagai... so i wonder how they cope dengan potongan gaji, from ~ 20k jadi belas2 ribu sajorkkkkkkk.... some of them maybe kena amek VSS and balik laaaaa kampong nun...
In fact, ada biras i (husband ex SIL) now facing kerugian jutaan ringgit, kena jual aset2 dia selepas kes rayuan RASUAH company heols as CEO dulu ditolak mahkamah tinggi putrajaya... ex SIL ni is the one yang hasut family utk boikot i selama 5 tahun when i finally give up on my marriage after 12 YEARS .... tak salahkan diorang pun on my failures, just that takde jodoh kan... move on sajorkkk...
Actually towards family my EX ni, i ambil kaedah no 4... i just delete them from my life and i tak amek pot langsung pasal diorang.. but somehow, words do travel and lepas 4 tahun i cut ties dengan diorang tu, ada plak sampai berita kat i.... ye laaa sbb kitorg keje bidang yang sama, somehow ada je mutual colleagues and friends..
Hearing the news.... i takde doa or komen ape2... This is the version that i would say..... CASH!!!! i choose no 4. malas layan. bye and go away Mula2 buat no 4. After few years, bila ternampak kat mana2 I akan jd no 3 pula. I ni bukan lah baik sgt. So CASH lah mereka2 tu. Missfadh replied at 22-5-2020 01:52 PM
Mula2 buat no 4. After few years, bila ternampak kat mana2 I akan jd no 3 pula. I ni bukan lah baik...
true.. kdg2 we suffered lepas dianiaya org.. some people tak rasa pun diorg aniaya org lain... susah ke jadi thoughtful ni.. kalo takleh jadi thoughful pun, just leave us alone la... pichee replied at 22-5-2020 10:36 AM
if org tu kejam sgt..i jadi no 3...dlm hati nk ckp..adan uke kau...hahaha....
tapi u baik je sebenarnya.. takde pun u cash2 kan orang... green~tea replied at 22-5-2020 12:51 PM
Back in 2017 masa iols divorce, mmg moment i jatuh tergolek lah.. fighting kat court syariah selama...
Hanya berminat dgn company yg potong gaji 20% tu....ofis kat klcc ke? Hehe midori888 replied at 22-5-2020 04:25 PM
Hanya berminat dgn company yg potong gaji 20% tu....ofis kat klcc ke? Hehe
Yes!!!!!!!! Hahahahhahahaha