bahagia itu ikut lah pd pandangan masing..
bagi akk bahagia itu bila pasangan saling memahami
tolak ansur,gaduh2 jg tipu kalau tak gaduh:lol::lol:
anak2 jd orang ,anak yg mendengar ckp akk dgn suami
pun dah kira bersyukur,skrg anak2 tgh samb blajar mudah2an
utk anak2 akk,diberikan kesihatan yg baik2 ,takdelah stress bagai
ckp makan pakai takde lah senang sgt takdela susah sangat,bole
jalan2 dlm malaysia pun bersyukur jg..alhamdulillah bahagia akk
setkt ni adik beradik alhamdulillah ipar duai pun ok.takde lah ok sesgt
ada jarak2 jg tp takde lah begaduh2 bagai atau masam2 muka.akk biasanya
jarakkan jg..arwah mak mentua dah takde,jd kuranglah geng rapat akk..lain2
alhamdulillah setkt ni.mudah2an akk dan suami dipermudahkan..syukur sgt2
dlm usia 40 an ni..msh stabil mental emosi..
Bahagia itu kita sendiri yang corakkan
Definisi bahagia pada saya bila family depan mata..
Buat semua bersama, happy sama2...
X perlu mewah.. Asal memenuhi keperluan
Pada saya my family is my happiness
APABILA melihat individu yang kaya, pastinya terlintas dalam hati segelintir yang beranggapan alangkah bahagianya hidup insan itu kerana memperoleh segala diingini di dunia.
Namun hakikatnya kita tidak menyedari bahawa individu itu sentiasa bimbang memikirkan keselamatan hartanya. Begitu juga masanya sentiasa dipenuhi dengan tugas harian yang menghalang daripada memenuhi keperluan ahli keluarga lain untuk melakukan aktiviti bersama.
Tidak dinafikan setiap insan mengimpikan kebahagiaan hidup di dunia. Namun, mengambil contoh situasi berikut, definisi bahagia membawa maksud subjektif mengikut keperluan seseorang individu tersebut.
Bagaimanapun, adakah segala usaha dalam mengecapi kebahagiaan di dunia itu akan membawa kebahagiaan yang hakiki dan kekal hingga ke alam abadi iaitu akhirat?
Hakikatnya, umat Islam perlu menyedari bahawa, dalam menyingkap rasa bahagia, Islam telah memberi panduan kepada umatnya menerusi sabda Rasulullah SAW bermaksud:
“Aku sangat kagum akan keadaan orang beriman itu. Semua urusan (dalam hidupnya) baik baginya di mana keadaan itu hanya ada pada orang beriman. Jika dia mendapat nikmat dan kebaikan, maka dia akan bersyukur, dan ia adalah sesuatu yang baik baginya. Jika dia ditimpa bencana, maka dia akan bersabar, dan itu adalah suatu yang baik baginya”. - Riwayat Muslim
Menurut hadis tersebut, Rasulullah menjelaskan bahawa hidup di dunia ini adalah anugerah dan kebaikan kepada manusia. Segala yang berlaku dalam kehidupan sama ada baik atau buruk merupakan suatu kebaikan jika mereka mengerti dan menghayati kehidupan ini dengan keimanan sebenar kepada Allah SWT.
Hanya orang beriman kepada Allah SWT merasakan bahawa hidup ini adalah medan penyempurnaan hakikat kehambaan kepada Allah. Ini kerana mereka tahu tujuan dihidupkan di dunia ini hanyalah untuk mengabdikan diri kepada-Nya.
Firman Allah maksudnya: “Dan Aku tidak menciptakan jin dan manusia melainkan supaya mereka mengabdikan diri kepada-Ku.” (ad-Dzariyaat: 56)
Ramai dalam kalangan manusia gagal menikmati hidup sebagai anugerah kerana tidak memiliki rasa kehambaan kepada Allah. Akibatnya, mereka menderhaka kepada Allah dengan melanggar perintah dan larangan-Nya.
Mereka juga merasa kecewa, gundah, keluh kesah, dilanda kesedihan dan kesengsaraan dalam meneruskan kehidupan terutama ketika ditimba musibah.
Walaupun pada zahirnya tersenyum, namun jauh di sudut hatinya terdapat kekosongan yang tidak terisi oleh segala kesenangan dan kemewahan di dunia ini.
Justeru, umat Islam perlu kembali muhasabah diri dengan merasai diri sebagai hamba Allah demi memperoleh kebahagiaan hakiki.
Umat Islam juga perlu menyedari bahawa matlamat sebenar kehidupan di dunia ini ialah untuk menyembah Allah di samping mengambil iktibar pengajaran kisah silam yang berlaku kepada umat terdahulu sebagaimana diceritakan dalam al-Quran.
Antara permulaan langkah yang boleh dilakukan bagi menuju jalan Allah demi memperoleh kebahagiaan hakiki ialah dengan meningkatkan ilmu agama. Ilmu agama penting dalam menyempurnakan ibadah supaya dapat menyinari kehidupan di akhirat kelak.
Ia sebagaimana sabda Rasulullah maksudnya: “Sesiapa yang mempelajari ilmu agama dengan bertujuan untuk habuan dunia maka dia tidak akan dapat mencium bau syurga pada hari kiamat kelak.” - Riwayat Abu Daud.
Setuju. Setiap orang berbeza maksud bahagia depa. Ada sesetengah orang rasa bahagia bila dapat kumpul harta byk2.
3 tahun lepas een amek keputusan resign kerja sebab nak jaga mak. And buat business kecilan. And tahun lepas start kerja ngan seorang kawan yang sama2 buat bisnes ngan een. Kiranya still buat benda yang een minat la.
Een rasa bahagia aje walaupun gaji tak sebanyak masa kerja office dulu.Sebabnya een senang nak mintak cuti untuk hantar mak ke klinik & boleh cuti kalau mak tak sihat. Berbanding waktu kerja kat office dulu. Nak mintak cuti pun susah & selalu rasa serabut sebab hati tak tenang.
Een doakan semoga kita semua berbahagia sellau mengikut definisi bahagia masing2 :loveliness:
To me 'bahagia' means you're happy with what you are and who you are with. :)
Bahagia tu subjektif.
Tak perlu kaya untuk bahagia, xsemestinya miskin itu x bahagia.
Bersyukurlah.
Bahagia bila tgk keluarga sihat dan gembira.
Bahagia bila tgk kucing2 sihat dan kekenyangan.
Bahagia bila masih ada masa bersama keluarga.
Bahagia bila kerja tersusun dan kurang stress.
bahagia tu hanya kita yang rasa..kau selesa ke tak dgn kehidupan & persekitaran kau.. bahagia bukan perlu ditunjuk tp hanya kau yg dapat rasa.
saya bahagia dgn kehidupan sekarang, dgn family, kerja & workplace & kawan2 rapat. elakkan org @ perkara yg menyesakkan fikiran kita
im a bit materialistic but bahagia bagi i bila dpt shopping tanpa tgk price tag! syurga!
bahagia bila hati rasa gembira dan tenang dlm kehidupan tak kira dimana berada dalam apa jua keadaan.
bahagia bila dikelilingi org2 yang disayangi dan menyayangi kita tak kira jauh atau dekat.
Easy steps to happiness
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These simple happiness habits are backed by science – and can easily be incorporated into your life.
Give money away
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Donating $500 has the same effect on how wealthy you feel as earning an extra $10,000 in income, a Harvard Business School study found last year. Other studies have found that donating much smaller amounts of money makes people feel pleasure. Whether it’s spare change or a higher-than-expected tax return, consider giving to a favourite charity to be happier.
Think of buying an “experience”
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Earlier studies had found that spending money on experiences (ie, concert tickets, a trip) increases happiness more than shelling out for material goods; now new research show this mood lift can come from simply drafting your list. A 2014 Cornell study found that people who merely anticipate making an upcoming experiential purchase, such as ski lessons, report higher levels of happiness than those who plan to buy, say, a new tech gadget.
Discover the two years that you’ll be happiest in your life, according to science.
Praise someone once a day
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Try writing one email, tweet, or text of praise; people who began doing this immediately felt happier, Before Happiness author Shawn Achor told Oprah. After 21 days of doing so, they reported feeling deeper levels of social support, a crucial ingredient of longevity.
Sit less
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Middle-aged women who sat for more than seven hours a day were 47 percent more likely to show signs of depression than those who sat for four or fewer, Australian researchers found. Those who engaged in no physical activity were 26 percent more likely to have symptoms of depression three years later than those who met exercise guidelines. The research can’t prove that sitting makes you sad: It may be that people who are prone to depression are more likely to spend time sitting down. However, people who are more active may also be more likely to engage in social interactions with coworkers or neighbours. Plus, physical activity can release mood-boosting endorphins that fend off sad feelings.
Put a spring in your step
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Your gait can impact your mood, new Canadian research shows. Study participants were shown a list with both positive words (“pretty”) and negative (“afraid”), then were asked to walk on a treadmill in either a depressed style – shoulders hunched forward, arms dangling – or a more upbeat way. Hunched panelists remembered far more negative words than those who had a happier pace. Even if you don’t feel like skipping, consider the axiom “fake it ‘till you make it.”
Here are 8 ways to choose optimism.
Plan the best for the end
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A week in a luxury hotel can feel rather ordinary by day four or five, according to Jaime Kurtz, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at James Madison University on PsychologyToday.com. If you save something special for the end of a trip, it “gives you the benefit of anticipation,” she writes. “Knowing that your final evening of vacation will be spent in a fancy hotel gives you something to look forward to, even as your trip nears its end and your return to everyday life draws depressingly closer.” What’s more, people tend to evaluate experiences like vacations by both their emotional high points as well as their endings. So even if most of the vacation was mediocre, a wonderful wrap-up can help you remember the entire trip in a more positive light.
Follow these other tips to ensure the perfect holiday.
Take a break from your favourite food
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A study in the journal Social, Psychological, and Personality Science found that going a few weeks without a beloved food – whether it’s chocolate ice cream or Brussels sprouts – can help you enjoy it more.
Cherish ordinary moments
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Common-but-lovely experiences, such as a nice walk home from the office or an unprompted hug from your kid, may bring you more happiness in the future than you might think, according to recent research in the journal Psychological Science. “People find a lot of joy in rediscovering a music playlist from months ago or an old joke with a neighbour, even though those things did not seem particularly meaningful in the moment,” psychological scientist and lead researcher Ting Zhang of Harvard Business School said in a press release. “The studies highlight the importance of not taking the present for granted and documenting the mundane moments of daily life to give our future selves the joy of rediscovering them.”
Here are 50 simple pleasures that make life worth living.
Pick up a paintbrush
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Tapping into your artistic side may bolster your ability to fend off stress. According to new research reported by Prevention, newly retired adults who would paint or draw once a week for 10 weeks showed more mental resilience (for example: not snapping at your spouse for no reason or getting impatient during traffic). “Creating visual art improves the connections between brain regions associated with resilience, likely because it’s an activity that calls for integrating cognitive, motor, and creative skills,” the magazine reported.
Cue up the bass
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Music with a strong bass can make you feel more powerful and motivated, according to recent Northwestern University research. People who tuned into bass-heavy songs, for example, were twice as likely to go first in a debate as those who didn’t, Good Housekeeping reported. For high-power beats, think Queen’s upbeat anthem “We Will Rock You” or 2 Unlimited’s “Get Ready for This.”
kebahagian terpulang pada masing masing. saya walau pun skang nie tak kerja dan masih single,tetap rasa bahagia je disamping keluarga.happy je kesana ke sini dengan keluarga.kawan pun tak ramai.ada pun semua duduk jauh dan ada keluarga masing2.tapi okey je.whatsapp kan ada.jauh dimata dekat di hati
bahagia bagi aku is when u r with people who love & appreciate u, and banyak duit pon membahagiakan plus kesihatan yg baik boleh buat kita bahagia.. im not well these few days, stress sokmo sbb xnak mc selalu tapi sakit hmmmm
Doing things we love :)
Bahagia sangat subjektif.. pada i bahagia itu bila hidup bebas hutang....cukup makan pakai...kesihatan yang baik dan yg utama boleh beribadah tanpa sebarang gangguan
kenapa TT x happy? rugilah. Life kita.. kita diberi peluang untuk bahagia. Dalam bentuk apa pun kena cuba happy. Manalah ada manusia yg ada semua... happy 24jam. Takde rasanya.. kalau ada sure dia fake... life ada masa happy, ada masa sad ada masa lost ada masa messy.. dan mcm2 lagi.
Pagi ni... i rasa happy and tenang.. tp xtaulah tengahari nnt. I rasa life ni sebenarnya simple how our persepsi towards apa kita lalui. I feel I can go thru all bad times so long im surround with people yg baik2... and feel loved. But esok maybe differently pulak... again..kita xleh give up dgn life. selagi kita diberi peluang kita kena fight... sgt rugi bila kita hidup kita x embrace moment yg kita ada. wlu hanya minum secawan kopi kat kedai mamak. enjoy it.
I love u my son, tq for being so adorable. Have a blessing weekend semua
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bahagia itu pilihan... we choose to be happy. first thing first kene bersyukur dgn apa yg kita ada baru la boleh dtg kebahagiaan.. and jangan cari kesempurnaan sbb nobody perfect. bersyukur and try to change, klu org tu tak boleh ubah, kita yg berubah...
Bahagia to me -
1) SIHAT. Tapu kalau sakit tu ingat tu ujian Allah. Bila sakit jangan keciwa. Ingat yg hidup ni roda. Sakit2 pun mintaklah kesembuhan dariNya.
2) MUDAH MEMAAFKAN
3) NOT EASILY AFFECTED DENGAN APA ORANG LAIN KATA. Ada opinion sendiri
4) MAINTAIN SMALL CIRCLE. Elak makcik bawang. Tapi rakan gossip tu perlu as part of escapism
Definisi kebahagiaan - no pressure
Tapi kalau takde pressure, takde improvement lah pulak kan